It’s normal for children to make mistakes, and many parents treat their children with criticism and anger and nagging! In fact, parents should be more patient with their children’s mistakes. The child’s fault can be corrected without the need for verbosity, as long as the simple three sentences 1, point out what the child did wrong. 2, point out the consequences of the matter, and how we feel about it, upset or very angry. 3. Tell the child that we like him personally. Then give the child a pat and communicate with him with expectant eyes, so that he knows that his mother loves him very much. So, what is the key to it 1. Point out the mistake your child made in a matter of fact. A single sentence can make it very clear to the child exactly what he or she has done. 2. Tell the consequences of the matter and how you feel about it: very angry and can’t tolerate such a wrongdoing. It only takes one sentence to let the child know why he or she should not do this and the negative effects it will have on him or her or on others. 3. We don’t tolerate what the child has done, but we like the child personally. Or just one sentence to tell the child that we love him, we don’t criticize him because we don’t like him, but we point out his mistakes because we love him. Of the three sentences, many times we only pay attention to the first two parts and criticism and anger, and endlessly! What we need to add is 1. not to be long-winded, but to be as brief and to the point as possible, so that the child knows in the first place his mistake and the reason why he cannot do so. 2, “three words” is equivalent to a tripod, missing a foot is not stable. Especially for children who are often criticized, the third sentence is even more important. 3.Children also quickly learn some ways to deal with things: to deal with things but not with people, to seize the subject, and to deal with it quickly. This makes it easy for the child to accept criticism, far more effective than nagging, and does not make the child resist, so that they calmly look at the problem, and then gradually change some bad habits. Don’t lecture and point out your child’s shortcomings endlessly, but do it right!