Every time the topic of cancer is opened, it triggers a sigh of relief! According to the “2014 Latest Research Analyzing China’s Tumor Epidemiological Spectrum” issued by the Cancer Hospital of the Chinese Academy of Medical Sciences, with an average life expectancy of 74 years old, the chances of each person developing cancer during his or her lifetime is 22%, and almost everyone can’t get around the topic of cancer. Through the cancer to see life, 5 cancer-related stories, I hope that through these stories can wake up still busy people in the country, don’t wait for a big disease before you understand! 1.Bad mentality, even the best medicine is ineffective As the saying goes, “even the best medicine can’t cure Lin Daiyu’s disease”, in fact, in my clinical work, I also found that “bad mentality, even the best medicine is ineffective”. This is a true story that happened in my clinic. One summer, a 60-year-old woman came to me, she was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. At that time, we told her that there was a mass on the pancreas, suspected malignancy, surgery has been removed, the degree of malignancy is not high, no chemotherapy, Chinese medicine is to adjust. One or two years later, the woman recovered well and went to the market every day to buy vegetables. Two and a half years after the Spring Festival, the woman to the hospital to do routine medical checkups, originally she was always accompanied by her sister, her sister is very smart, each time will greet the doctor beforehand, line “good faith deception”, this time her sister has something, it is accompanied by her old partner. The companion is honest, will not go first to say hello, also did not realize the seriousness of the problem. And do ultrasound physician and very seriously, after doing it again and again, and check the original record, and finally told the woman: “congratulations, your pancreatic mass is obviously shrinking, from the original 8 centimeters shrunk to less than 2 centimeters!” Qian was stunned, “Didn’t I say my mass was removed? How come it’s still 2 centimeters? You must be lying to me, I must not be able to ……” She returned home to the pain under the heart, eating is a problem. I gave her more than 2 years of original medical records, which clearly recorded the results of each of her examinations, and indeed better and better. But she just didn’t believe me, muttering, “I can’t do it, it’s hopeless, you guys lied to me!” I gave the same treatment idea and increased the medication, but the miracle never happened again. More than 3 months after learning the truth about herself, she was gone. In fact, for a period of time after her surgery, she had fully recovered her weight and other indicators. But because she learned what happened, then her mind fell to pieces, and eventually she was not saved. There is an old saying in Chinese medicine, “The one who transports medicine is also a god.” No matter what kind of medicine, all need to use the individual’s state of mind and body functions in order to play its pharmacological effects. The mind is not good, and then good medicine is ineffective. 2, got sick, died in the blind toss Many people got sick, not the disease to his life, but died in their own blind toss, which is very common in the tumor clinic. I have a distant relative who got cancer, after finding me, I saw that it was lung cancer, because he was relatively old, I suggested him to adjust the traditional Chinese medicine. After three to five months, the tumor was well controlled. But he was always uneasy. His daughter told me that he was on the Internet every day, checking this side effect and that side effect, and then stopped the medicine himself. Then he went to the local private hospital and the doctor told him that there was something wrong here and there. In fact, he is more than seventy years old, you have to do a checkup, the body has no problem at all is strange! I told him clearly that all these problems did not matter and that the tumor was fine. But he just wanted to figure it out and assumed that he was seriously ill. Then he received minimally invasive treatment with a new technology from a small hospital, and then there was no more. Three months later his daughter came to visit me and I saw her wearing a black sleeve and I understood everything. His daughter said sadly, “My father died of blindness. He knew a little bit of reasoning, but not all of it! Hard to find out the problem clearly, blind tossing blind treatment, every day fear; every day on the Internet to check is cancer, the results before and after only nine months, gone”. Remind everyone, sick must believe your doctor, you know yourself again, no doctor knows, not this disease killed you, but most cancer patients are dead in their own blind folded on the road! 3, self-indulgence is equal to self-seeking Ancient people’s understanding of life is wise: both repression must not be, and indulgence must not be. A few decades ago, we seldom heard of “cancer”, but in recent years, who do not have relatives and friends around cancer? The rapid development of cancer is closely related to the indulgence of people today! “The proportion is more than 70%, and the “wine style is good”, they like to be bored and not drunk! “Smoking desire”, the Americans from the 1960s to 1970s began to control smoking, and more and more strict. But more than 20 years from 1994, the incidence of lung cancer fell by 17%; and male lung cancer incidence, mortality decline, mainly due to tobacco control. Today, Chinese people still have no control over tobacco, and some parents still smoke in front of their children, which is a demonstration! Today the incidence of lung cancer in China is the highest of all cancers, and indulgence in appetite is closely related! “Indulgence in appetite”, driven by appetite, eating and drinking at will, is also a typical example of indulgence in instincts! Today in heart disease, stroke, diabetes, high blood pressure, cancer and obesity are more common. And obesity is also many cancers, such as bowel cancer, breast cancer, ovarian cancer, liver cancer, prostate cancer, etc. The number one culprit. The World Cancer Research Fund analyzed that indulgent diet, to promote the occurrence of cancer in developed regions, plays a role of 35%. “Longitudinal libido”, sex should not be inhibited, indulgence is also the enemy of health. In addition to sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), at least female cervical cancer, vaginal cancer, male prostate cancer, etc. directly or indirectly with the first time too early in the house, more sexual partners, sexually not enough to check related. Moreover, those who continue to indulge in sex even after having cancer have a much more difficult time controlling the cancer. In short, there is a limit to the tolerance of life, no matter in which way, more than this limit, sooner or later there will be a problem, because it exceeds the limit of life can bear. 4, no amount of money can buy back life Make more money, can afford to buy a nice car, live in a ‘mansion’, but can not buy back health! Whether it is the United States of America’s technology giants Steve Jobs, or our ordinary people or, when facing death, have awakened to one point – more money can not buy back health. However, it is at this point that people go back and forth again and again: hoping to redeem their health with money, but waiting for most of the regret and hate! I have a real estate developer in my hometown, once ranked the richest man in the area, worth billions of dollars. He was obsessed with grasping for money and had a poor local reputation as being stingy. Even, as a big boss, he would get into arguments with civilian laborers over a few extra dollars for transporting rocks and sand. After he suffered from lung cancer, his initial condition was not very serious. When he was in such a state, he was still stingy with his money, valuing it more than anything else, and he did not follow the doctor’s advice very well. As a result, his condition got worse every day. At this point, he probably realized that something was wrong. He pleaded with me to make another trip to the clinic, telling me that he was willing to use all of his possessions to exchange for his life. I smiled faintly and said politely: doctors are not omnipotent, many things have an internal law, if you realize this a year or two earlier, perhaps not so! Knowing that he was dying, he changed his mind and spread money around. Dying words also specifically requested that when the funeral, the hearse car along his development of the property tour round …. Maybe it is reluctant to part with or unwilling to it; but can only say that he is confused, did not figure out the money and life, which is more important! There is a famous real estate developer in Shanghai, after he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, his family lied to him that it was pancreatitis, and he had an operation, which was considered to be more successful. His friends advised him to be careful and put his business on hold, but he didn’t take it seriously, thinking that he was rich enough to stay in the best hospitals and use the best medicines, and he didn’t take it seriously at all. Nine months after the operation liver metastases appeared. When he found out, he asked his adult children to “negotiate” with me, saying that if I could maintain his father for two years, he would be paid a million dollars! I said, “I’m sorry! I said, “I’m sorry! I’m not making that deal. Your father is in danger. I can only do my best. Often cancer patients or their family members vow to get cured! It’s good to have the will, but it doesn’t move the “disease”! Disease is disease. Against the disease, you have more money, useless! Making so much money in life will only result in you being hospitalized in a first-class ward. This quote reveals the sadness of the money-oriented people. I can only say that this is the sadness of this era and nation! 5, the sky and the earth, not as big as the health of the Chinese people’s life pattern is very simple, before the age of 40 years old life for money, after 40 years old is to use money to buy life. Many people in order to make a name for themselves, to break out of their own world, often work hard, the “love of hard work will win” on the lips, but in fact this is the biggest mistake! I know a sales director of a large company, she has always been known as a strong woman in her career. Before she retired, she was diagnosed with ovarian cancer, and the doctor said she only had 3 months to live. Later, I gave her with traditional Chinese medicine internal plus external, with chemotherapy after only one year, the body indicators began to normalize, people also look good. Then a private enterprise heard that she is a sales management, she was invited to do part-time. At that time, it was agreed to go only 2 to 3 half a day a week, do consultants can be. Unexpectedly, she worked, that is, twelve points into. In nearly 4 years, the body indicators are rebound over 3 times. Concepts such as getting ahead and making a name for yourself can really kill people sometimes. Everyone should slow down the pace of work and life in moderation. We should learn to put the brakes on when it’s appropriate: slow down and live life by subtraction. If you are able to do this, you can store up tomorrow very well. Because when you live longer, you contribute more to society, and of course you enjoy more. Don’t wait until you’re sick to realize that the so-called cognition is actually a person’s perspective on the world, that is, the worldview, values. Seemingly grandiose, in fact, everyone has, in layman’s terms, he feels that life owes him or should be grateful for life, is to know enough or not know enough, this is two very different cognition. Cognition directly governs the psychological and physiological, if the person always feel inadequate, he will speed up the pace, improve efficiency, seize all the opportunities, people will therefore become very stressed, his mood is very difficult to relax, and do not relax the mood to force the body difficult, in order to fulfill his wish, the body will have to work overtime, to be exhausted in advance, and may even suffer from cancer, a lot of cancer sufferers are the elite workplace, is because they are too hard to do, and the body will have to be exhausted early. Elite, is because they are too strong, and indeed very strong, but so “strong”, in fact, is in the high psychological desire, the body reluctant to make things difficult results, so Lee Kai-Fu in the control of lymphoma comeback, and wrote a book, the book recorded the most of his realization and even repentance, he and all cancer patients, the same. He, like all cancer patients, failed to penetrate life and death despite his successful career, and only realized it after a serious illness. Specifically, to avoid serious illnesses, including cancer, what we can do is, in a word, to subtract, to subtract from our desires, which is fundamental, not to desire too much, and not to make things difficult for ourselves, because all desires need the body to fulfill them, and there is a limit to the body’s ability to withstand, only that when it exceeds the limit it is not known to the world, especially in the case of those who used to be physically fit and are not very young, and whose potentials, or ability to compensate, are very good, and therefore can mask their potentials and ability to compensate. Especially for those who used to be in good health and not too old, their potential or compensatory ability is very good, so they will cover up the traces of diseases, which is also the reason why big diseases often hit them at unexpected times. From this point of view, these people who seem to be healthy and young and are in the middle of the day should meditate a little bit on the saying that they will not understand until after a big disease.