Love is a very beautiful thing, because love so embrace, kiss or further physical contact. And as people’s mindset continues to liberate, although kissing has long become a common thing, but there are still people who are more conservative and want to be able to progress gradually, not so intimate at the beginning. That how to refuse these more “eager” kissing request? The following methods should be able to help you. 1, change the subject method: Once you feel that the other party has the idea of kissing, immediately say something he is more interested in the topic, or more want to know things to divert his attention. You need to combine the actual situation, flexible and adaptable to good. 2, politely excused method: want to politely refuse, but do not want to make the other party feel alienated, you can say, “Sorry, not used to such intimacy, give me some time can?” Or, “I want to go on with you for a long time, to experience every step of the relationship, the next time we meet to kiss me, okay?” 3, cut off the opportunity method: you can choose some public places that are not suitable for kissing, as a dating place, such as museums, cinemas, art galleries, etc.. If the weather is suitable, the whole date outside is also a good choice, after all, in the new crown pneumonia epidemic normalized today, who can not take off the mask. 4, physical discomfort method: mouth ulcers mouth pain, dental treatment, etc., are good reasons to refuse. If you really can not, you can also dislike him to have bad breath, not let him near you, but need to be used with caution. 5, hug instead of law: avoid his kiss, side head leaning on his shoulder, with hugs, holding hands and other physical contact instead of kissing, so that he feels that he does not dislike him, but do not want to develop so quickly. 6, the righteous method: If you do not like each other very much, or just meet each other began to “hairy hands and feet”, so you feel uncomfortable, must be straightforward to refuse, clearly tell him that you do not like this. Strangers forced kiss or even call the police for help, refuse to sexual harassment.