Small children who are frightened can be relieved by properly calming them, distracting them, and being there as much as possible. Usually it is more effective. But there are individual differences, there is no most effective method. 1. Appropriate appeasement: Parents should gently soothe the child, so that the child feels safe, to ease the mood of being frightened; can also hold the child up, gently pat the child’s back to appease. 2. Shift attention: children’s memories are relatively short, can be improved by shifting attention, such as giving the child something to eat, give the child toys, etc., after the child was frightened state; can also give the child to listen to soothing music, try to let the child to forget the feeling of shock. 3. Accompany as much as possible: after a child is frightened, especially at night, parents should try to accompany the child, so that the child can have a more secure sleep state. If through the above methods, the child scared after the nervous state, or did not ease, it is recommended to consult a doctor in a timely manner, under the guidance of the doctor, improve the relevant examination, to clarify the cause of the disease, in accordance with medical advice for treatment.