As the saying goes, boys should be raised poorly and girls should be raised richly. I have suffered in my life because I have no money and have not provided a better life for you two sisters. If you had experienced wealth when you were young, you wouldn’t have been fooled by these small favors in front of you. Then later, I met more and more moms, and I realized that they may have different qualifications and different families, but they were all strong supporters of raising their daughters rich. And they did. The main manifestation of this is spending money on their children. You have to buy what you like, what your neighbors have, what your colleagues have, what your relatives have. You have to buy what you have, you have to buy what you don’t have, you have to buy what you lack, and you have to buy what you don’t lack. But also to take children to learn art, learning dance, learning English, engage in specialties, buy good, buy expensive, buy imported, buy natural. Finally, we have to summarize the report: you see, I scrimp and save to give my daughter the best life, I gave my all ah! How I love her! Raising a daughter is easy, just have food and drink. But raising a daughter is not easy. Feeding and raising, these are two different concepts. Under the concept of raising a daughter, being rich and raising a girl is not being rich in the way you are talking about. To raise a girl is to help her shape a correct and healthy outlook on the three things, to shape an independent and well-rounded personality, to help her keep a clear head, with accurate self-knowledge and the ability to think independently about things and make correct judgments, so that she can have, what best suits her, a normal and healthy life. Simply put, it is the legendary cultivated, brain. In this process of molding and guidance, the “rich” means: spend more rational thinking, wisdom, effort, time and resources. What most people generally recognize as “rich” is, at best, a component of the “resource investment” element. Raising a good girl requires a lot more investment than money, and it’s a lot harder than money. Why is it that girls, in particular, require so much investment? Because compared to boys, a girl is more likely to be influenced by her family environment, such as subconsciously imitating her mother. Easier to be swayed by personal emotions in the way of behavior, such as the irrepressible irritability during the period of great aunt. More likely to be influenced by people around her, e.g. likes to compare with each other in groups. Easier to suffer from multiple pressures, such as having to work and raise children at the same time. They are also more likely to be brainwashed by society’s seemingly normal, but actually incredibly fucked-up notions, such as it’s better to be born than to marry well. They are more likely to put themselves into the role of a “woman”, playing the role of a weakling who goes along with the crowd, becoming a big old woman before they are old enough, and ultimately, losing the basic traits of a “normal human being”. In the process of fighting these influences, money, far from playing a decisive role, but most people, only see money. So, what really makes a difference? It’s teaching by example and upward mobility. This means that, first of all, you have to become a cultivated, brainy person. On this basis, complete the introspection of your own thoughts and behaviors, perfect, improve. Finally, raise a girl in a richer, more rational, wiser way. It is true that a girl from a favorable family environment is more likely to become beautiful, but what makes her beautiful is not as simple as material things. I never believe that a rich old lady can raise a daughter who is not a rich old lady with all the “riches” she can give. No matter how materially wealthy she is, such a daughter will still be arrogant, brash, and intolerant when it comes to choices, and she will still be quick to take advantage of the world. She will still have a worldly, utilitarian heart, and will be short-sighted and uncertain about right and wrong when faced with choices, constantly asking for what she wants, constantly demanding, and not using her head. She will be equally mesmerized by small favors, equally deceived by men, and will even curse all the men in the world viciously after being deceived, rather than believing that it is she who is untouchable. What is more terrible is that, with the spiritual world does not match the material enjoyment to bring her, will be a high and mighty, proud and fragile heart of the princess, she is just always living in their own built world, lonely waiting for the world’s submissive just. Why is a princess a princess? Because her dad is a king and her mom is a queen. You’re not enriching your daughter, you’re just molding another version of yourself over and over again. And by the way, there’s a good chance she’s not as good as you. Because, well, she’s still got princess disease.