When raising children, parents should know a few things as early as possible that will help us on the road to parenting, less detours, more wisdom and rationality. In the road of parenting life, every parent is feeling the stones to cross the river, in the process of interaction with the child, we step by step footprints slowly understand the psychology of some children, slowly experience some children’s feelings, slowly understand how to get along with the child. These are the lessons, but also the life of parenting. We start training ourselves to learn to teach our children when they are still in the mother’s womb, and the difficult task has only just begun when the child is born. As the child grows older, his personality becomes more and more obvious, and his independent mind insists on his own self will make us feel upset for a while, however, whether you accept it or not, this is how the child grows up. When raising children, parents should know a few things as early as possible, will help us on the road to parenting, less detours, more wisdom and rationality. 1, the fewer toys the smarter the child Whether you have money or not, you should not buy too many toys for children, toys are not good for the development of children’s brains. Why say so? Toys, will this touch, that look, the lack of the spirit of research, more will not be obsessed with a toy, thus developing a bad habit of what does not like, what also play but three minutes. Toys less, the child will think of ways to move the brain to toss that a toy, a variety of patterns, and love it, the more you play with more patterns, the deeper the love of this toy. Thinking more, a toy can think of countless ways to play, smart brains is so inadvertently cultivated. 2, children who eat independently since childhood, do things more focused When young, children can only focus on one thing, it is difficult to be distracted by other things. And eating is a person’s immutable thing, this is the psychological needs. Eating, the most common thing, is the most good time to exercise the habits and certain character of the child. Chinese parents like to feed the meal, in fact, the most undesirable. Feeding tends to make children double-minded and picky about their food. Let children eat independently from an early age, not only can children concentrate on the matter of eating, but also to develop the child’s finger dexterity, and in the process of concentrating on how to eat, but also to cultivate the child’s love of food, and will not be picky about food. 3, good sleep habits are the basis of the child’s health Newborn babies, in addition to eating is sleeping, parents can spoil their children on some insignificant things, but only the habit of sleeping, must be persistent and non-negotiable. Children grow in sleep, whether it is the body’s functions or brain growth, are in the sleep of the rapid growth up. Many people think that only enough sleep is good, but also like to feed the child in the middle of the night or let the child sleep very late, they always think that sleep is not need a time rule. In fact, this view is very wrong and wrong. Good sleep habits not only bring children’s physical health and happiness, not only to help maximize the development of the brain, but also bring children a lifetime of good habits, because each person will spend at least a third of every day on sleep. 4, more experience some small setbacks can develop children’s strong personality Many parents are afraid of their children fall, afraid of children sick, afraid of children aggrieved and so on. Have you ever thought about how these small setbacks as a child will affect your child? What can you do if you fall a few times or even hundreds of times when learning to walk? The most is a small injury, abrasion skin, bump a bag and so on. But if you do not let him suffer these setbacks, he will not experience the fear of injury, fear of injury as a child is not much, then after growing up, he is still fragile as a cookie, and how to stand in this complex and changing society? Sickness is also the same, every time you get sick is one more body resistance, so don’t be afraid of your child to suffer these small setbacks. The strong personality is honed from these small setbacks. 5, go out is the most valuable learning experience Life is not just on paper, the knowledge on the books know more, but also need him to experience, experience comprehension found after the knowledge on the books into his brain real nutrition. Some people say that children have no memory before the age of three, so take him out to play to see the world is still useful? This view is actually incorrect, the child when going out, enjoy the process, see different things, these will be precipitated in his brain, will give him a different thinking of future learning. The more you go out, the richer your life will be, and the more complete your thinking pattern will be. 6, read a few books to your child every day to help your child learn to think in multiple ways The world of books is colorful, and children who have been nurtured by books since childhood will have more diverse thinking patterns and richer imagination and creativity. Let your child listen to a few books before bed, one can develop the habit of quiet mind before bed, but also as soon as possible into a quiet sleep; secondly, the stories in books can stimulate the child’s understanding of the world, thus stimulating the desire to learn. Let your child develop the habit of reading, in the future of parenting life, you will slowly find a great help.