1. Take your child’s request seriously. When he asks expectantly on the phone, “Mom, there is a problem in the homework that I can’t do.” You can’t tutor him for a while outside, tell him the exact time: “Think about it by yourself first, and I’ll explain it to you when mommy comes home, okay?” Often ignoring your child’s needs can cause him to lose confidence because he is not valued. 2. Take your child on a weekend trip and ask his opinion. But instead of asking “where do you want to go”, ask “do you want to go to the zoo or the aquarium”, give him a range of choices and let him make his own choice, which will increase his confidence. 3. Do not laugh at your child when he makes a mistake, or point it out in public, or deliberately emphasize it at the time, and teach him at another time. 4. When your child asks a question, listen patiently, and if you can’t answer, tell him honestly. Let him know that there are things that no one can do, to dispel his fear of others, so as to increase self-confidence. 5. Use a consultative tone to let your child do what you can. For example, “Can you get Mommy a glass of water?” Letting your child know that he or she is needed is the best way to boost his or her self-confidence. Let your child post his doodles on the most prominent wall in your home; make a display for your child on a cabinet to display his awards and small creations. A sense of honor is the best way to inspire your child’s self-confidence. 7. Give your child a room, no conditions, you can give him a part of the room, so that he has a free play, unrestricted little world. Because he has his own “territory” his heart is full of pride, which will add to his confidence. The mother’s tolerance is the soil for the child’s self-confidence. Don’t always scold your baby for the mess in his room or on the table, but teach him to clean up his own loose items and do it with him. 9. Always comparing a child who is better than him with him will most likely deflate his confidence. Do not say to your child, “The neighbor’s child can do it, why can’t you do it yet!” Even if he is really inferior to other children. 10. Gradually let your child take charge of his own pocket money and let him be in charge, it will increase his self-confidence in life. Take your child to the supermarket, hand him the pending payment, try to let him do the accounting, and let him hand the money to the cashier. 11. Having your child’s opinion respected is the beginning of his self-confidence. Buy clothes for your child and let him or her pick out the colors and styles. Maybe you don’t like the colors he chooses, but don’t dismiss his vision. 12. Equality and communication are the steps to give him confidence. Watch his favorite cartoons with your child, discuss his favorite characters and lines with him, and show interest in his point of view. 13. Your child’s confidence comes from your approval of him in every little thing. Let your child wash his own little socks and handkerchiefs independently, even if they are not clean. 14. Exercise his courage to perform on stage is to exercise his self-confidence. When your child performs reciting poems, telling stories and singing songs, give him a clap to show that he is in agreement. 15. Cultivating his social skills is actually cultivating his self-confidence. Let your child approach unfamiliar children and actively encourage him to interact freely with people of all ages. 16. Let him develop the habit of doing things according to a plan. When you have a plan, you can be confident in what you do. Help your child make a detailed plan and remind him to follow it. For example, help your child make a plan for practicing the piano, and consult with him about the time when you make the plan. Remind him to do it by saying, “Son, we should practice now, right?” Get him into the habit of doing things according to the plan. Your child likes to explore things that interest him, and if you stop him from doing so, you’ll discourage him from doing so. Don’t arbitrarily stop your child from playing with Coke bottles, shoeboxes and other kinds of waste. 18. Overcoming difficulties can make him feel more confident. If your child encounters difficulties when putting together a jigsaw puzzle, encourage him or her to figure out how to solve these difficulties on their own. If you can’t figure out how to do it, you can give him some pointers. When spending time with your child, always look for specific reasons to praise him and encourage him with words of praise, but do not praise him in a hollow way. You can say, “Your child got all his homework right today, so there is progress.” Don’t say, “Son you are so smart, mommy likes you so much.” Specific praise gives him confidence; empty praise makes him arrogant. 20. Your loss of faith makes him lose his confidence and trust in you. You didn’t really want to take him to McDonald’s, but you casually promised him to go, and you promised but didn’t deliver. 21. Help your child bring out the positive aspects of his personality and make him a person of character. If your child is a hothead, work on his speed; if he is a chronic person, work on his organization. Forcing him to change his nature will make you lose confidence in him and make him lose his self-confidence even more. 22. Teach him to recognize his own looks from a young age. For example, tell him that although he is not big-eyed, but small eyes as long as they have a look is very good. A lot of lack of confidence often stems from a lack of recognition of their own looks. 23. Make your child aware of his talents and abilities so that he will be more confident. Provide your child with books and materials to support him in doing what he dreams of doing. 24. A child who can take care of himself in life can be confident in situations where he is not dependent. Try to get your child out of dependency in life. Be on time to school and try to have the alarm clock wake him up instead of his mother calling him over and over again. 25. Be more knowledgeable to increase your confidence. Let your child learn to travel and play in the mountains from an early age. When you take your child on a trip, tell him more about the animals, plants, geography, allusions and other knowledge you encounter. 26. Do not punish your child’s faults with verbal abuse. Not only does it undermine your child’s self-confidence, but it also makes your child rebellious. 27. When your child suffers a setback, analyze the experience with him in a gentle tone so that he will not make the same mistake next time. It is especially important to re-invigorate his self-confidence. 28. Parents follow reasonable standards of behavior and be respectable people. Parents who are not respected in society damage their children’s self-confidence the most.