Men who drink alcohol and get pregnant are not advised to stay. Regular drinking by men can affect the quality of sperm and lead to sperm malformations. This usually affects the baby’s central nervous system development, or facial deformities and developmental delays. If you drink occasionally, it may not harm sperm quality much. If you are not ready to get pregnant, you may choose to have a medication abortion or an abortion. If you want this child very much, you can stay and then have regular checkups to ensure as healthy a baby as possible. Start with NT test at 11-14 weeks of pregnancy, Down’s syndrome screening at 15-20 weeks, diabetes screening at 25 weeks, 4D ultrasound and heart ultrasound at 26 weeks, etc. If the fetus develops normally at all stages of the test, then you can keep the fetus. The specific situation of each individual depends on the recommendation of the local doctor.