Although Xiao Xi’s mother had breast cancer, and the operation was very successful, and the standard chemotherapy was strictly followed after the operation, bone metastasis was still found in the recent review, which made Xiao Xi’s family fall into a new dilemma, especially Xiao Xi’s mother was devastated, and she sighed all day long, feeling that there was no hope now. In fact, cases like this are not uncommon. Many tumor patients often have distant metastases during or after treatment, which is the characteristic of malignant tumors: excessive proliferation, invasive infiltration and distant dissemination. Since the twenty-first century, the treatment of malignant tumors has made great progress, one-third of tumors can be cured by existing means; one-third of tumors can be cured by various measures to control the momentum of malignant growth of cancer lesions and achieve long-term survival with tumors (so-called survival with tumors means that the human body “peacefully coexists” with relatively quiescent tumor lesions, maintaining a balanced coexistence). (The so-called survival with tumor means that the body and the relatively quiescent tumor lesions “peacefully coexist” and maintain a state of balanced coexistence); and one-third of the tumors can effectively relieve clinical symptoms and improve the quality of life through palliative treatment methods. In recent years, the World Health Organization has classified malignant tumors as chronic diseases like cardiovascular diseases and diabetes. This certainly indicates that its treatment needs a long process, but at the same time, it also indicates that malignant tumors are not terrible and can be completely cured or achieved good control. Then, what are the conditions needed for survival with malignant tumor? Firstly, patients should establish strong confidence to fight with cancer and face long-term treatment with positive, optimistic and upward attitude; secondly, tumor patients should not be paralyzed after being “clinically cured”, and everything should be fine, they should follow up and review in hospital regularly according to the recommendation of oncologists to solve the problems in time; thirdly, for tumors that have lost the condition of radical cure, they should be treated in a timely manner. Thirdly, for patients whose tumors have lost the condition of radical cure, it is very important to go to the hospital regularly to carry out tumor reduction treatment, and give standardized anti-cancer treatment when the tumor is growing rapidly, such as surgery, chemotherapy, radiotherapy (external irradiation, internal irradiation, gamma knife, X-ray knife), interventional treatment, argon helium knife, etc., in order to control the momentum of tumor growth in a short period of time and make the patient’s clinical symptoms and signs get relief rapidly. The patient’s clinical symptoms and signs can be relieved quickly. After remission, patients can go home to recuperate and rest, supplemented by some treatments with less side effects, such as molecular targeted therapy, immunotherapy, endocrine therapy and Chinese herbal medicine; fourthly, patients should ensure sufficient nutritional support at home to recuperate, do not easily abstain from eating, and eat more protein-rich foods such as fish, eggs, meat and fresh vegetables and fruits rich in vitamins, and participate in some rehabilitative exercises and exercises within their ability. We should also participate in some rehabilitative exercises and recreational activities within our ability to adjust to an optimal mental and physical state to survive with a good quality of life. After the doctor’s patient and careful help, Xiao Xi’s mother regained her courage and faced the reality with courage, and received bone cement remodeling and radiotherapy for the metastatic site along with chemotherapy.