Sex is a wonderful enjoyment, is the seasoning of the couple’s life, for the relationship is to play a role in promoting. And with the accelerated pace of life, for many old couples, sex has unknowingly become a “fast food”, between the couple no longer have a sense of freshness, some couples and even because of the “sexual interest” crisis to the end of the marriage. So, couples in the end how to “keep fresh”, the more you do love it? 1, to create an intimate and romantic atmosphere long-term stable intimate relationship, familiar environment, familiar partner and familiar with the process of sex, will slowly become tasteless. To reawaken the “spring” of sex life, you need to make some changes. Create a warm, romantic, tender atmosphere, will be more conducive to arousing lust, rekindle passion. Indoor environment of quiet and harmony is very important, the bedroom open a soft light, a new bed sheet covers, aromatherapy, put on soothing soft music, so that the whole room are filled with the smell of love. At this time, women can also do a hairdressing, change into a set of sexy pajamas, spray perfume, invite him to dance with you a dance …… These small details of the change, can make the couple feel fresh, “sexual interest” greatly increased. 2, a change of venue to ignite passion Many couples to a resort, the mood has become particularly relaxed, anxiety and stress will be swept away, and even sex has become enjoyable, mainly because there are stimulants to improve sex in action – the novelty of time and space and a brief escape from the stress of life. Try making love in a different place, such as the bathroom or kitchen, in the car, in a hotel or in the wilderness – in addition to the bedroom, which will not only add freshness to your feeling of constant change, but also give you unexpected excitement! Therefore, couples go out alone, together to meet a movie, eat a candlelit dinner, and then together to the countryside or hotel to relive the passion, enjoy the world of two people, which not only helps to enhance the relationship between the sexes, is an excellent emotional lubricant between the couple. 3, early morning sex beautiful start Speaking of passionate sex, we first think of the night. In fact, compared with the night, early in the morning sex index is the hottest. Sexologists have suggested that occasionally sexually interested women, try to schedule sex early in the morning after first waking up. Because the quality of sex is higher at this time of day. After 8 hours of work every day, fitness after work and phone calls with friends in the evening, how much more “sex” will you be interested in? And early morning is the opposite, when your mind is blank, sleep hormone – pineal hormone also no longer make you feel tired, this is the best time for sex. This time, the testosterone content of the man’s body will be higher than the rest of the day about 25%, his hormones are quietly boiling, quickly and he is immersed in the passion! 4, focus on dressing smart dress vaguely sexy beauty is appreciated by men. According to the survey, 80% of men want to make love when the other half can wear sexy clothes, and erotic lingerie can greatly stimulate male desire. Sexy lingerie lace, carving, hollow, transparent or translucent texture, the purpose is to create a sense of dazzle, so that women are fascinated by their own bodies, so that men’s imagination, excited, there must be off the impulse. For men, a completely naked woman is far less sexy than a woman wearing sexy lingerie. The lingerie will make people have a desire to welcome and reject, more help to improve the quality of sex life. If a man is willing to accompany his partner to buy erotic lingerie, then women will feel that the other party cares about them and treats them as the most intimate lover, which will generate special sexual excitement and pleasure, and therefore achieve a state of satisfaction both physically and psychologically. But it should be noted that in the form and scale of eroticism, the two sides need to communicate to avoid misunderstandings. 5, sexual communication is important Sex is not a mere combination of sexual organs, but also the exchange of emotions between the two partners. Therefore, during the couple’s lovemaking, we should pay attention to speak smartly and communicate more. Love words can regulate sexual interest. Women’s some provocative words, soft sexual words hint, can be very good to arouse male desire, so that men produce uncontrollable excitement, more quickly into the state of passion. And men say some complimentary words, can better impress women, mobilize the deepest female lust, so that women also become eager to embrace, eager for your next passion. After making love, discuss your sexual feelings with each other, communicate more, tell each other what you like or don’t like, which position is the most comfortable, tell Ta your most real sexual experience or express sexual fantasies, etc. These sexual discussions can make each other more intimate. When you are in the process of sex, feel comfortable, cool, must not be stingy to praise each other, to let Ta feel encouraged and affirmative, which will make Ta more confident, will double the effort and performance, so that the sex between you also naturally become more wonderful, more in tune and harmonious, the more you do love. 6, more caress, hug smart sex is more than a storm of passion and foreplay, there is passion after the play. Foreplay is the indispensable process of perfect sex, it can ignite the “sex” interest between partners. And after play is the end of a song, although not as loud and clear as the climax, but long and deep and some flavor. Foreplay, men must remember to more gently, slowly touch their significant other, because each woman’s sensitive position is different, the strength of the stimulus is different, your kisses, caresses will let Ta feel love, arousing passion for sex. And couples after sex, must set aside a certain amount of time to intimate warmth, such as hugging, chatting, kissing, etc.. Because of the difference between male and female physiology, male libido arousal faster than female, often after ejaculation reached the climax, therefore, most men want to rest or do other things after sex. And women still have a slow process of sexual excitement fading after sex, when the male hug will give a warm buffer to the female psyche and can play a good soothing role. After sex, both sides can hug for a while, but also to each other’s performance to make sure and praise. All these contribute to the harmony of sexual life and the desire for the next sex. References: [1] Tan Giggling. Create an atmosphere of sexual life between couples [J]. Chinese health care nutrition, 2001(8):40-40. [2] Liu Defeng. Five “smart” for sex life extra points [J]. Popular health, 2020(3):116-117. [3] Lv Li. How to improve the sex of couples [J]. 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