10 things not to do before the age of six, but we’ve been letting our kids do!

“Children before the age of 6, play should be their main way of acquiring knowledge, too early to give children to learn, in fact, is a sad”, this is a well-known national scholars’ remarks. 6 years old children learn or not, everything to interest as the main measure. Here are 10 things that are recognized as the best things not to do before the age of 6. Do moms and dads know? 1, do not emphasize memory learning Children’s brain plasticity, prematurely let the child learn by rote, will greatly reduce its brain plasticity, affecting the child’s imagination; forced memory will also increase the child’s psychological pressure, reduce the child’s interest in learning, wait until the first grade real learning, anorexia semester is coming; young brain needs balanced development, premature simple memory although the development of The child’s left brain, but the development of the right brain is inhibited, hindering the overall development of the brain. 2, boarding kindergarten Many parents think that boarding is conducive to the child’s self-reliance, indeed, boarding allows children to learn to be independent earlier, but this effect is the same as left-behind children and orphans, these children have a common characteristic, is a heavy psychological problems, emotional indifference, these children grow up with a lower sense of self and cooperation, affecting interpersonal communication. 3, do not let the child recognize the word 6 years old before young children, not yet able to engage in fine homework activities, and difficult to distinguish similar words, in addition, the skeletal muscles of young children’s hands are not developed, not suitable for sustained forceful action, there is this period when young children write, they are more not focused on recognizing the word, but to stare at the tip of the pen to turn, or draw out the color is good. 4, don’t drink a lot of juice for a long time Juice is rich in vitamins, but if children within 6 years of age drink too much juice, it will disrupt the function of the child’s digestive system, more likely to diarrhea. In addition, long-term consumption of large amounts of fruit juice, not only for the child’s health is not beneficial, but may make the child suffer from “juice drink syndrome”, that is, the fructose in the juice will prevent the body’s absorption of copper, affecting hemoglobin production leading to anemia. To train children to drink water habits, generally speaking, after the age of 3 children should no longer use the bottle, otherwise it is not conducive to the development of children’s teeth, with a straw cup is a good choice. 5, careful use of frustration education young children before the age of 6, especially before the age of 3, are in a period of security establishment and perfection, if this period to give too much frustration, but will make the child lose trust in the outside world, and even lose curiosity and interest in the world, is not conducive to the growth of children. 6, should not learn the skills of musical instruments Unless the child is interested, children before the age of 6 should not be forced to learn musical instruments, let alone professional technical skills training. 6 years old children, it is recommended to participate in the appreciation or “immersion education”, so that the child immersed in the sea of music, spontaneously derived interest, otherwise premature The training of skills will bind the child, limiting the child’s imagination and creativity. 7, don’t wear sunglasses for a long time Children under 6 years old, visual function is not yet mature, still need more sunlight stimulation, wear sunglasses for a long time, the macular area of the fundus can not be effectively stimulated, will affect the further development of vision, serious cases may even form amblyopia. 8, avoid 7 sports Generally speaking, it is not advisable to carry out tug of war, long-distance running, inversion, arm wrestling, playing with adult scooters, exercising muscles, rabbit jumping and other sports within the age of 6, because such sports will increase the load on the limbs of young children, affecting the overall development of the body, and even affecting height development. It is recommended that children within the age of 6 years can jump rope, bouncing, jumping jacks, shooting small balls, playing small soccer, playing small basketball, swimming and other sports. 9, do not watch 3D movies The eyes of young children before the age of 6 are still developing, including eye muscles, eye balls, refractive system is not fully set, is relatively fragile. When watching 3D movies, both eyes need to fuse the images they see into one, and both eyes see different images near and far, after fusing together to form a three-dimensional image, for children before 6 years old, his fusion function and stereoscopic function are not well developed, long time watching 3D movies constantly eye adjustment and fusion, easy to produce eye fatigue induced Pseudomyopia, which in turn leads to myopia in children. 10, do not limit play time 6 years old children every day in addition to sleep, eat is play ah! Parents should not think that children love to play is not the performance of progress, on the contrary, only in the game to release the child’s nature, and toys as the material existence of the game, but also accompanied the child through a lot of happy times. 6-year-old children should be free to play, parents do not limit the child’s play time too much, appropriate to the child to buy some toys.