Ask around how many children have not been scolded by their parents? Very few. If you break something accidentally, if you don’t do your homework well, or even if you come home late from school, you will be reprimanded or even beaten. Although it’s true that children are not beneath the rod, but if they have to be scolded for everything, the children who grow up in such an environment will have a very different mentality from ordinary children. This child, either the more you play the skin, until completely out of control; or will only know to obey their parents, obedient, afraid to express their own ideas and needs. The high-pressure environment of frequent beatings and scolding is a bad stimulus for children, who are not easily able to form objective and clear judgments about things and always look at things from a point of view based on needs or hatred. This bad stimulation also affects the child’s memory, causing memory loss. When a child makes a mistake, a parent’s first emotion will definitely be anger, but your anger and scolding will not have a positive effect on the child. Parents should first wait until both parties have calmed down and ask the child, “What happened?” Let the child tell the story from his point of view, rather than just listening to other people’s words or what he sees on the surface, and let the child state the facts without accusing him of wrongdoing. If it is indeed the child’s fault, parents should give appropriate punitive measures, such as punishing standing, confiscating toys, etc., so that the child understands that mistakes have to be paid for. Make sure the child knows why he or she is being punished and what he or she should do next time. When reasoning with the child, parents should not assume a superior posture, it is best to crouch down and be on an equal footing with the child, so that the child can feel respected and more receptive to what you have to say. Respect is not only between husband and wife, but also between parents and children. If a child gets respect and trust from his parents, he will also respect them and follow their advice, which is more conducive to the implementation of family education.