Without effective communication skills, it will only lead to complaints from both you and the doctor: parents say that after waiting in line all morning, they were only seen for less than five minutes. Every time I want to talk to the doctor in detail about the child’s condition, the doctor always interrupts me. The doctor says: “I am afraid of parents who talk too much, but don’t have any useful information. How can I tell the doctor the most valuable information about my child in this short 2 minutes? A. When introducing the baby’s medical history, do not talk about the details Which day went to grandma’s house, ate a lot of chicken wings, went out in the evening to finish a while, came back fine, at night he always fussed, a measure of 39 ° God! The doctor must interrupt you, the doctor will interrupt you when you say a certain information is not very meaningful to the treatment. Second, understand the condition in advance and prepare information If your baby usually lives with more than one person to take care of, or you do not know the whole course of your child’s illness, then before the visit, communicate with other caregivers about your baby’s condition to avoid delays when the doctor asks you, you are asking others. This communication can be done in the car on the way to the hospital with your child, and is effective and not time-consuming. If your baby has been seen at another hospital, bring medical records, labs, films and other information. Third, seize the key points and provide valuable medical history What medical history is very necessary for the doctor? Here is a summary of the two most common respiratory and gastrointestinal diseases in babies: For respiratory diseases (fever, cough, etc.) doctors often want to know: Does the baby have a fever? How long has the fever lasted? (Don’t tell me what day the fever started, or what day of the week it started. Doctors never remember what day of the week it is, and they don’t have time to help you figure out how long the fever has lasted. (You need to figure out how many days you have had the fever before you go to the doctor. (Do not say how many degrees the fever has gone down after taking fever reducers, and how many degrees it has gone down after taking fever reducers, just say the highest degree. The stool can be sent in a glass or plastic vial, or placed in plastic wrap. Do not keep it for too long, the sooner you send it for testing the better. Usually stools are tested within 1 hour of being retained. Frankly speaking, such a short time is not easy for the patient and difficult for the doctor. Because the doctor in such a short period of time to the patient’s biggest demand is not to miss the diagnosis, that is, there are serious diseases do not give delay. It is unrealistic to have a particularly satisfactory and comprehensive doctor-patient communication in such a short period of time. In public hospitals, this conflict may not be alleviated for a long time. There are two things parents can do: learn how to communicate most effectively with the doctor in such a short time, or choose a private hospital with good professionalism.