Introduction：If you are a parent, what specialties do you let your children learn? Or your side of the children have learned what specialties? The parents, let the child to learn the piano, but regretted, and the reason but let people shocked …… Nanjing Ms. Liu’s daughter Lele this year on the fifth grade, learning the piano has been 4 years, and now the level is also good. In Lele on the fourth grade in a grade performance, Ms. Liu sat at the front, her daughter a long dress, intoxicated expression and elegant movements, coupled with the beautiful sound of the piano, to win the audience off-stage bursts of applause. Ms. Liu took a picture of her daughter playing and sent it to her circle of friends, and was praised by her friends. Ms. Liu was intoxicated. But a class activity some time ago brought Ms. Liu a nuisance. A few weeks ago, Lele’s class organized an activity, a lot of “skilled” children have performed their own programs, harmonica, martial arts, violin, a variety of types, but Lele because the class can not provide a piano, their own pianos can not be moved to the school can not be able to perform their talents, moping for many days. Ms. Liu talked to the reporter about this matter, the heart not to mention how annoyed, had intended to dress up to go to her daughter’s class to accept the praise of many parents, the results did not go into. “At first let her learn the piano, the original intention is to cultivate sentiment, you see those girls who play the piano well, how temperament! My daughter must be like them. But now more and more found that the piano limitations are too big, can not be used everywhere ah.” Ms. Liu told reporters. Not coincidentally, Nanjing citizen Ms. Sun’s son grew up learning drums, but Ms. Sun told reporters that every time his son needs to perform in school, he and his husband will have to spend nine oxen and two tigers, the trunk of the car empty, the heavy drums will be carefully moved to the school, and then moved back home after the show. “You say I should have let him learn a harmonica in the first place how good it is!” Ms. Sun said. “Show off the child’s mentality is actually quite normal, now the parents of children in elementary school are basically the post-80s, they are a generation with a more flamboyant personality, and there is nothing wrong with the experiences from childhood that lead them to have such ideas.” Nanjing 12355 psychological counseling expert Wen Qing told reporters. After having children, most couples, when chatting with others, the talking point is the child, so the child has become one of their business cards or tools. “It is the normal psychology of most parents to enable their children to follow the track they set for themselves, but the process has to take into account the views and ideas of the children, or it will cause a lot of conflicts afterward.” When the child enters adolescence, the rebellious mentality will be on the parents of the “show off mentality” resistance, and parents should do is to respect the child’s views from childhood, do not treat the child as their own “show off tool”. “Face education” is not something that children really need.