An ordinary Korean housewife summed up 20 secrets to make her children lucky while they were growing up. Now, after graduating from the world-renowned university UCL, her child has stood out from the fierce competition and become an upper member of UBS, one of the top ten banks in the world. As a parent, have you also mastered these secrets? 1, tolerant and warm tolerance of children Even if a child makes a mistake, forgive him with a tolerant heart and tolerate him with warm words. The child will have confidence in himself and his luck will sprout when he is sure that he is acknowledged and loved by his parents. 2. Have a philosophy of education with conviction Fearing that your child will fall behind others and forcing your child to learn what he does not want to learn will weaken your child’s will. It is most important to find the right education method for your child, and stick to it once you find it. 3. Help your child to have dreams Parents should help their children to have concrete dreams for the future. Once a child has a dream, lead them to believe that this dream can come true, and this action will give the child positive “motivation” for self-development. 4. Trust your child. Whatever dream your child has, believe for a moment that your child can achieve it, and as the mother continues to encourage the child, the child will be surrounded by the good fortune of growth. 5.Guide your child to have a concrete dream With a dream, help them to have a concrete outline of that dream and inspire his concrete actions around it. Do not give your child a forced impression. 6.Mother is a learning aid If you want your child to be lucky, the mother must first set an example. Read with your child and have experiences that you can share with your child. 7.Patience is the most essential element Don’t nag your child to do this and that, but create an environment where your child can change consciously and wait happily for him to change. Even if occasionally your child does something that is not to your liking, you might as well let him off the hook for once. The mother should be the one to convey the blessings to her child. Children who grow up with “word blessings” will have more opportunities than others. Opportunity is often associated with luck. 9. Let your child travel with a purpose Travel is a great way to teach. Through travel children can develop self-reliance, endurance and the spirit of challenge. 10.Let your child judge alone Let your child judge the situation in front of him/her alone is the best training. Even if you can’t trust it, recognize your child’s own decisions and encourage them. 11.Let your child suffer a certain amount of pain When children feel pain, the parents who want to help them feel the same. But parents can not replace their children to walk their life path. Tell your child that life is decided alone. 12.Let go of your eyes Set up big dreams and let your child grow alone through them. The process of growing up in the wide world will be able to catch the best luck. 13.Don’t impose parents’ dreams on children Parents should not confuse greed and dreams. Don’t forget that parents are only auxiliaries for their children to realize their dreams. 14.Cultivate children’s sociality Relying on one person and strength can never get happiness and success. Children who lack social nature can neither succeed nor be happy. 15.Sometimes let the child to fail for the purpose of the challenge Even if the child fails, but also to tell them that it is only a mistake rather than failure, the child will further expand their own vision through failure. 16, people who know how to enjoy can succeed In order to achieve their dreams must experience pain, from the pain to find happiness. The key to success lies in how to enjoy and endure the difficult process. 17.Training allows children to distinguish priorities Setting the order of action is training judgment. Start young and let your child choose to play or learn on their own. 18.Encouragement is more important than praise Praise only evaluates the results of what the child has done, but encouragement will increase the child’s will to do things better. 19.Let your child accept failure very frankly If you have done your best, even if you fail, let your child be satisfied. 20.Get up the courage to pick up a pen Pick up a pen to tell your child what you want to say to him in the form of a letter, whether it is a letter or an email, it does not matter.