Mothers should slowly teach their children not to get upset even if they wet their pants. This is not a disease, just that children sometimes play, so there is urine directly out, parents should know that as the child’s bladder capacity increases, the number of bowel movements decreases, the ability to control urination or defecation will gradually increase, the baby control the number of bowel movements is roughly like this, control the bowel movements at night, control the bowel movements during the day, control the urine during the day, and finally control the urine at night. Generally girls learn to control their bowels earlier than boys, most cases between the ages of two and three learn to control their bowels. This should be a psychological aspect, should not be a disease, parents do not need to worry too much, of course, also need to see this child perineum there is no clear redness, if there is pain when urinating with obvious redness, also need to consider the possibility of urinary tract infection, or vulvodynia, also need to go to the hospital for examination of the.