Many parents have encountered this kind of trouble, that is, children do not listen. You want the child to go east, but the child has to go west as if against the adults. Some parents get angry and grab their children is a beating, for this kind of education, parents have not made a reflection on their own behavior? Is it possible that the more children are beaten, the more disobedient they are? 1, avoid using a negative tone of voice when parents find that their children are not very obedient, they should encourage their children, find the reasons for their disobedience, help children to establish good habits, and then slowly improve the disobedient behavior of children. However, some parents are very negative and say to their children, “You are just this hell, there is nothing we can do about it, do whatever you want.” If parents really look at their children’s problems with such a negative attitude, the child will really also think that they are really bad, they will keep on being bad, and finally a child who did not have any bad habits will really become a bad child. 2, as far as possible not to say “no” to the child Some parents they rarely consider the way they speak to their children and the way they use words, they think of what to say, as often as the child said “no”. The child wants to do something on their own, you say no; the child wants to help the parents do something, you also say no; in the middle of this no, that no, the child feels no meaning, they will think of ways to break this no. Either the child will not be able to continue, or the child will be contrary to the thinking and ideas of the parents, and then the child will not listen to the parents properly. Parents should encourage their children, feel that children can face anything independently, in helping children to build a confident, independent, sunny character, while helping children to establish the right aspirations and pursuits. 3, master and children’s communication skills Parents should know how to communicate and communicate with their children under the respect of the child, as much as possible to use a gentle tone, squat down to stand at the child’s height and talk to the child. This way the child will feel at ease and that the parents respect them. Parents do not rush to deny the child, but to stand more on the child to observe them, silently help them, when the child encounters problems more encouragement, the child will be from for your good friend. 4, often accompany the child If the world’s best way of education that is to accompany, because there is nothing better than accompanying the child to get the parents care and love. Parents should not be busy with work every day and not even see a glimpse of their children, but should take more time to play with their children, read together, and grow together. The more time you spend with your child, the better your child’s parent-child relationship will be, the more influence and positive education you will receive, and the more your child will become a good and obedient child.