Parents set an example 1. praise their children’s thoughts, not their appearance; 2. accompany their children to read, not surf the Internet; 3. set an example in public places by speaking softly to people, not shouting; 4. look at their eyes when talking to their children and often say “please, thank you, excuse me”; 5. chat with their children, not to say bad things about others 5.When talking with children, do not say bad things about others, but often ask children: “What do you find good about this person?”. . 1. listen patiently to your child and thank him for his willingness to share; 2. address others not as “men and women” but as “men and women”; 3. smile and thank those who provide services (such as waiters and cleaners) and encourage your child to do the same; 4. 4. often ask your child: how do you think others will feel if you do this! Cultivate children’s self-confidence 1, children’s self-confidence is the foundation of emotional intelligence, its importance, just like the foundation of the building, such as the foundation is not stable, the tall house is very easy to collapse; 2, many parents excessive praise: “child you are the best”, in fact, does not help to cultivate solid self-confidence. To praise for specific things or behavior; 3, confident children have three major positive self-perceptions: I am good-looking, I am capable, I am popular. Teach your baby interpersonal skills 1. Introduce strangers in a gentle tone to make your child feel safe; 2. Do not force your child to interact with strangers to avoid increasing your child’s nervousness and anxiety; 3. Do not label your child negatively (such as “cowardly”, “shy 3. Do not label your child negatively (such as “coward”, “shy”, etc.); 4. Reassure your child in a timely manner; 5. Demonstrate and teach your child how to greet others and praise him/her greatly whenever he/she makes progress.