Nowadays, most young parents are very caring to their children, but not many of them really treat their children as human beings with dignity. If the child has any problems in learning and life, when he/she tells his/her parents, he/she will interrupt the child and will not let him/her finish his/her words. If the child is reprimanded or scolded, the child can only swallow the words. The negative effects of not having the patience to listen to what the child has to say, while the parents impose their own joy and sorrow on the child, are obvious. One is that children do not get the attention of their parents, they can only bury their secrets in their hearts, it is difficult for parents to know what their children are thinking. This will have no effect on the child’s education. Second, the child’s right to speak is not respected by parents, over time, the child will be confrontational with parents, so that the two sides do not trust each other, communication difficulties. Another survey shows: 70% to 80% of children’s mental health problems and family-related, especially with the parents of the child’s parenting and improper communication methods. Third, and parents do not let their children finish their words, on the one hand, is not conducive to the improvement of the child’s ability to express, on the other hand, so that the child produces low self-esteem. A child telling his parents his inner feelings is actually an excellent opportunity to improve his ability to express himself and enhance his social interaction skills. If you deprive your child of this opportunity, your child’s ability to express himself will not be improved, and he will have difficulty expressing himself in social interactions, which will lead to low self-esteem. And a person who lacks self-confidence can hardly be described as a healthy person, and even more difficult to become a successful person. Although children are small, they also have independent human dignity, they have the freedom to express their inner feelings and elaborate their views. Parents should be patient and let their children finish what they have to say. If your child has a valid point, you should appreciate it; if your child has an unreasonable point, you can further exchange opinions until the knot in your child’s heart is removed. Only in this way can a healthy and reasonable parent-child relationship be established.