Nowadays, it is easy to raise children, but it is difficult to educate them well. A slap on the wrist in anger is only a temporary effect. Taking physical punishment to educate will only create fear in the child. How exactly do parents do it? A, 2, 3 years old children must not hit Parents of children’s discipline and management is not a bad thing, but through the use of force to manage, more parents are controlled by their own negative emotions and misbehavior. Especially for children under 2 or 3 years old must not hit. Because, for children who do not yet know what is right and what is wrong to take physical punishment education, can only make the child fear psychology, sometimes children in the beaten temporarily obeyed, but did not solve the fundamental problem, more terrible is the children imitate the parents’ bad mood and hit the action, to kindergarten or other occasions to hit peers, the consequences are unimaginable. Second, not disciplining children in the heat of anger In a situation of extreme anger, parents are certainly unable to discipline their children in a rational way. Therefore, when parents can not calm down in any case, parents should temporarily leave the scene, or divert their attention to do something else, and after they calm down, calmly criticize the child, to help maintain a good parent-child relationship, but also to achieve the purpose of criticism. The first thing you need to do is to think about the whole process of hitting your child, for example, what did he do that made you so angry? Is it the first time you did it or many times? Have you dealt with this kind of mistake in the past? How did the child react to the beating? What did you do after you hit the child? If it was your own problem, did you sincerely apologize to the child …… It would be beneficial to summarize it. In short, parents should learn to fully listen to their children’s ideas in their regular education, communicate with them more, and try to use encouragement to guide their children, rather than using force to solve the problem. Try these methods to educate children 1, the implementation of “time isolation”. When a child is disobedient, fooling around or fighting with other children, parents can put him or her in a room alone for a while to meditate on his or her past. Parents watch the time at the door, no matter how much the child cries, can not be released. As soon as the time is up, Dr. Kathy Seifert, an American psychologist, suggests that the time of “time isolation” should be converted into minutes for the child’s age, for example, 9 minutes for a 9-year-old child. Immediately after the isolation to urge the child to correct the shortcomings, and the child to talk about what to do in the future, rather than just focus on what the child did wrong. 2. Remove the child’s treats. “If you don’t clean up your toys, you won’t get to play with them tomorrow.” “If you don’t behave, you won’t be allowed to go outside.” Be careful that the punishment is comparable to the child’s fault and not endless. If the child corrects themselves, they can also be given an extra treat. 3. Make the child make up for the transgression. If a child breaks something, make him fix it or spend their allowance to have it fixed. If a child is bad to a little friend or sibling, let the child do something nice for them.