Abstract: During the New Year, some parents in the background to the author about their children timid, shy when visiting friends and relatives, and even afraid to play with children of the same age. The author is dedicated to the article today, we talk about how to get rid of the child’s timidity, right? There are many children who are timid, afraid to contact strangers and behave honestly. If this type of depressed children are reasonably guided, they will develop a stable and patient, meticulous and quiet good character, but if poor guidance, timidity will grow stronger. This is how timid character is developed To drive away the imperfect side of the child’s character, we must first understand how such a character is developed. A child’s timid character is often caused by a narrow circle of life, improper education methods, intimidation, and too many restrictions. More blame in daily life will also cause the child afraid to try and practice to gain knowledge and experience, and thus timid. If you, as a guardian, have no intention to do the above things in your daily life, it is time to correct your education methods. How to drive away the timidity of children? A. Support your child to do things boldly in a safe situation Give your child maximum freedom of movement in a safe situation. Some parents use an assertive attitude, hoping that their children can act according to their own intentions, which is actually very selfish. Support your child’s boldness and independence in making choices and solving problems on their own, and be tolerant of their failures and faults in the process. At the same time, children should learn to face their fears, when the child is afraid, parents should be more encouraging. Be clear about what your child is afraid of and provide scientific explanations for what your child is afraid of. Encourage your child’s spirit of exploration and experimentation. Don’t put a ban on this and that. Parents should let go of their children and let them learn to grow. In fact, children are not as fragile as parents think. Train your child to drink from a bottle at six or seven months, learn to eat with a spoon when he or she is older, and let him or her wash their own socks and learn to use scissors when they are older. Children who have good hands-on skills are more confident. The actual fact is that you will be able to get to know your child’s friends, and take them out on trips, so that they will have a broader perspective and no place to hide their weaknesses. Create the conditions, invite your child’s little friends to visit your home, so that your child a little more children interaction, familiar with each other and play, so that children do not feel lonely when they enter school. Let your child interact more with children and also play with slightly older friends to gain more knowledge. Take your child into nature more often. When you have free time, take your child to the countryside, walk together, cross streams, learn about natural phenomena, meet small animals, collect plants, etc. Parents need to set an example by treating people with generosity and cheerfulness, as well as telling their children to adopt different ways of interacting with different people, and seize the moment to guide them in a targeted manner. When sending your child out, you should also prepare a protective shield for him. Show your child how to protect himself. When taking your child out, teach them traffic rules and other precautions whenever and wherever you can. Tell your children how to walk dangerously and safely, tell them who to call if they get lost, and remember their parents’ phone numbers, home addresses, etc. There are many children who are usually good, but when they encounter unreasonable bullying from their classmates, they only know how to run back to their mother’s arms, at this time, parents should ask their children the reason for their aggression, more understanding and explanation, if the classmates are indeed unreasonable, parents should tell their children not to be afraid, and support them to use the right language to tell each other that this is barbaric behavior and should apologize, while parents Parents should also communicate with the classroom teacher and the other child’s parents in a calm and polite manner. Do not expand the dispute so as not to cause anxiety to the child.