Virgins and non-virgins, the biggest difference, that there is no difference! There are numerous methods circulating on the Internet to quickly determine virginity, with no scientific basis. What? You do not believe? Then we’ll talk about it carefully, one by one. 1, virgin first bleeding, and non-virgin no longer bleeding? False! In ancient times, some places will be the bride red handkerchief, publicly displayed for others to see, to prove the chastity of women, and many films and television dramas also have such bridges. This makes many men have the misconception that “the first night will definitely bleed”. According to modern medical statistics, only some women will bleed for the first time. The reason why the phrase “bleeding on the first night” is so popular is because in ancient times women had their first night too early and their vaginal walls and hymen were not fully developed and less elastic. In addition to emotional tension, insufficient lubrication, poor technology and other reasons, the private parts of the injury, which led to bleeding. As you get older, the hymen becomes thicker and thinner and more elastic, so it is less likely to break and bleed. Even if bleeding, the amount of blood is not as much as in the TV series. 2, virgin must hymen intact, non-virgin must not be intact? False! Medically speaking, the hymen is just connective tissue with no actual function, but in traditional thinking, the hymen is given more meaning by society. The hymen is not a closed membrane, but rather perforated and with holes of varying shapes. If the hole is large, the hymen does not necessarily break even if one has had sex. In addition, because of the many forms of the hymen itself, even professional gynecologists are not able to accurately determine this, let alone the average person, and some people are not even born with a hymen. There is no strong correlation between the diameter of the hymen opening and whether or not you have had sex. 3. Is there a difference between the physical appearance of a virgin and a non-virgin? False! There are many ways to quickly determine virginity, such as walking posture, eyebrow shape, breast size, eye expression, legs together, and other statements circulating on the Internet. These methods seem to be well documented, but they are not based on science, and even malicious speculation about women. The person is different, the difference in appearance is inherent, whether she is a virgin, she looks like this, through the appearance of the characteristics of identification is pure nonsense. 4, virgin private parts pink, and non-virgin private parts black because of frequent sex? False! The color of the chest, knees or private parts of the shade, and whether there is no sex, whether the frequency of sex has nothing to do with. The color of the skin varies from person to person, from part to part, and from age to age, and the dark color of the private parts is a normal physiological phenomenon. As we grow older, the skin of our private parts starts to thicken, wrinkle more, and become pigmented under the effect of estrogen. The vast majority of people’s private parts are dark, including boys. 5, virgins will not get gynecological disease, while non-virgins will get? False! As long as a girl, nine out of ten will get gynecological diseases, no more common, even people who have no sexual experience can not escape. Public pools, public toilets, unclean towels, decreased resistance and other reasons may lead to the body or female private immune barrier is attacked, germs take advantage of the situation, thus causing inflammation. We thought the label “virginity” should no longer be a problem for modern men and women dating, but it has been quietly haunting some people’s hearts. Whether or not men pursue “virginity” or whether or not women choose to be a “virgin” is simply a matter of personal freedom. The most important thing is whether you can tolerate and accept the diversity of your own or others’ choices in sexual matters, and that this choice does not harm others. References: [1] Xie Xing, Kong Beihua, Duan Tao. Obstetrics and gynecology [M]. Beijing: People’s Health Publishing House,2018. [2]Gao S. F. A critical discourse analysis of the “virginity complex” in contemporary China[J]. Literature and Education, 2010(13):76-79.