The first time a woman has sex is called the “first night”. However, due to the influence of some movies and novels, many people have a wrong perception of the first night, worrying about pain, bleeding and whether they can bear it. In fact, pain is not a standard part of the first night, and the first time can be very pleasant. As for how long it can last, it should also be considered from the male ability, posture skills, age, psychological pressure and other aspects, each person is different. The main concern about the length of time the first night lasts is the severe pain of the first time. The first time you are in the market, you will be able to get a good deal on your own. Why does the first time hurt so much? The pain of the first time is not as painful as people think, caused by the tearing of the hymen. The hymen is not a membrane, but a perforated connective tissue, which is very elastic and has few nerve endings and blood vessels, so the pain is not very painful, even if it is propped up or even torn. In ancient times, women were very young during their first night and their bodies were not yet fully developed, so the vagina was treated roughly and torn to cause more bleeding. In other words, if they are not treated roughly, they will not be vaginally torn and injured, and the pain of the first night of a modern woman of age is not that exaggerated and does not even bleed. The other reason is nervousness, listening to the “first night = pain” psychological implication, the real first night of the body can not be released, lubrication is not enough, it is easy to hurt pain. The first time how to enjoy a longer, more pleasurable sex? From the beginning, sex is to pleasure, if the pain has been continued, women’s pleasure will also disappear, then the first incorporation will become a task, a task that may only enter the party with feeling, naturally not last too long. Therefore, both parties are well prepared and skilled to enjoy the first night without pain, in order to enjoy a longer and more pleasurable first experience of sex. The following 4 tips can be referred to: 1, learn in advance: before the first night, both sides should know each other’s physiological structure in advance, study science articles, know yourself and your enemy in order to overcome difficulties. But be careful, do not blindly look at film and television dramas, small films on the depiction of art above life, it is easy to be misled. 2, well-prepared: condoms, lubricant are very necessary, hygiene is the key, after all, the first time very easily injured, to avoid germ infection. 3, psychological relaxation: well-prepared at the same time, to relax, do not be nervous, not to mention the dodge, while reducing the expectations of the first night, more communication, try a few more times on it. 4, timely communication: If there is pain, never hard, to communicate with each other in a timely manner which position pain, which position comfortable, enjoy each other to explore the wonderful, you will be able to endure a longer period of enjoyable sex. References: [1] Xie Xing, Kong Beihua, Duan Tao. Obstetrics and gynecology [M]. Beijing: People’s Health Publishing House,2018.