In the network, you can always see some questions about how to distinguish a virgin, and teach people from walking posture, breast shape, buttock size, skin condition and other characteristics to distinguish whether a virgin pseudo-science articles, and there are countless. The truth is that there is no difference in the appearance of virgins and non-virgins, and there are no features to distinguish them. This is actually equivalent to trying to determine from the appearance of a male whether he is good, big or not, whether he has ever had sex, is a concept. And there is only one answer, and that is not to judge. A virgin is a woman who has not had sexual intercourse. For thousands of years, the Chinese have been influenced by the Confucian school of thought, placing extra importance on female chastity. Even to the “sexual liberation” today, this “virginity complex” still exists. The need to distinguish virgins has become even more important to this group of people. But the truth will only disappoint this part of the population: there are no obvious characteristics of virginity, not to mention that the hymen is broken to determine whether it is a virgin or not is not reliable. There is no sex, the hymen may also be due to the movement, rupture; while some people have sex, but because the hymen is tough or the male penis is small, but also able to remain intact. The “first night of redness”, moreover, cannot be used as a method of identifying virginity. Medically speaking, a hymen is simply connective tissue that has no actual function. The hymen is not an airtight membrane, otherwise where would menstruation flow from? According to modern medical statistics, about 40% of women do not bleed during their first sexual encounter. The reason why this statement is widely spread is mainly because the ancients married too early. Emotional tension, poor technique, or male toughness and vigor, lubrication is not enough, the vagina will be worn out, which bleeds, is not a virgin can happen. And as for the so-called appearance to distinguish methods, only each woman’s looks appearance differ, whether she is a virgin or not, she looks like this, through the appearance of the characteristics of identification is pure nonsense. It seems to focus on virginity, but in essence it is the first possession. From the perspective of human reproduction, it is a form of continuation of the historical male anxiety of not being able to guarantee whether or not the reproduction originates from himself. Our bodies have long been free and liberated, and everyone has the right to dominate their own bodies. Whether a woman is a virgin or not should not be your criterion for judging her personality and value. The fact that she is not a virgin does not mean that her value is lower, it just means that she does not meet your criteria for choosing a spouse, that’s all. References: [1] Xie Xing, Kong Beihua, Duan Tao. Obstetrics and gynecology [M]. Beijing: People’s Health Publishing House, 2018. [2] Liu Zhao. How far is the road out of the “virginity complex” [J]. Psychology and Health,2016(10):50-51. [3] Gao Sifei. A critical discourse analysis of the “virginity complex” in contemporary China[J]. Literature and Education,2010(13):76-79.