This proposition is not unreasonable given the pattern of most Chinese families in which the mother takes the primary responsibility for educating the child. Parents should be reminded that the lack of fatherly love in family education is not conducive to the all-round development of children, and that children, especially boys, who are estranged or isolated from their fathers often lack the fortitude of character and have more than a little milkiness. A family, even if poor, as long as there is a kind, frugal, optimistic and tidy woman in charge, such a family is still a sanctuary of the soul and a source of happy strength. In addition to spontaneous love, a mother must learn the art of education, otherwise, any educational reform will be in vain. The image of motherhood affects every person’s life from the beginning to the end, and perhaps many people will not seriously think about and admit this, but it is indeed a truth that cannot be denied! A person grows up as long as his or her mother accompanies them in their growing miles, everything about their mother, including their mother’s image; their mother’s principles of being a person; their mother’s thoughts …… All will unknowingly always influence their children, those children is life you and me. A strong mother teaches her children not to be cowardly in the face of difficulties In some people’s thinking is to treat women as representatives of weakness, as if only men can deserve the word “strong”. In fact, in real life, really encounter difficulties, can not be afraid of hardship, has been persistent is often those who seem to be weak women, they even in some areas than men show more strong persistence. Second, broad-minded mothers let their children learn to look to the future Women’s chest has traditionally been portrayed by the literati and its narrow, and even the folk saying: women have long hair and short insight. As if only men’s chests in the world is a wide avenue; and women’s hearts are just mountains of sheep’s intestine paths. However, there are a lot of women’s chest let us admire, really these women’s chest let us know a mother’s broad chest will play a big role in children. Third, kind mothers let their children know how to be compassionate The most terrible thing about human society is the cruelty of behavior and spiritual indifference, but none of us can deny that many people seem to be unable to avoid these two tragic realities. Although sometimes these two conditions are the result of a “force majeure”, in most cases they are the result of a man-made phenomenon: some people grow up without a kind mother, and from then on their personality is seriously distorted. Although the “compassionate” sentiment is formed by the cultivation and education, it still comes from the goodness of the child’s mother’s roots. Bill Gates once said that what he got from his mother was “piety and kindness”, and we can see his mother’s imprint on Bill Gates’ large donations to poor areas around the world. A calm and composed mother makes her children learn to be resilient In many literary works or tangible propaganda images, we mostly see mothers who encounter disasters, either bawling or desperate to think of suicide, but in real life, we see in today’s indescribable scenes, a mother’s calmness and composure is enough to make people can never forget. Five, a cultivated mother will cast the quality of the child “cultivation” the term in each person’s embodiment, that is, a person’s quality, a person’s excellent quality seems to be able to achieve his career. Even if one “builds up” the qualities in adulthood, most of them are still “nurtured” by the mother. If a mother respects the old and loves the young, her children will naturally follow her example; if a mother is frugal, her children will naturally refuse to be extravagant; if a mother is polite and courteous, her children will naturally be modest and not arrogant …… The mother of the famous conductor Tang Muhai, Ms. Lan Weijie, paid special attention to the cultivation of her children. Tang Muhai became a world-class conductor, not only because of his artistic attainments, but also because Westerners appreciate Tang Muhai’s elegant cultivation and noble qualities, which they believe must have come from the influence of Ms. Lan Weijie on her children. A cultured mother will influence her child’s profound thinking A cultured mother will definitely influence her child’s thinking, and if she is a cultured mother, she seems to be able to influence her child’s profound thinking even more, just like a child who cannot walk yet slowly learns to walk under the leadership of adults holding hands. A cultured mother influences her children little by little from the day they are born, in every day of their lives, so that they will stop being vulgar; so that they will stay away from simplicity; so that they will know profundity. Everyone’s mothers are influencing their children in their own image. Although all the mothers cited here are celebrities, it does not mean that we do not focus on ordinary mothers, only that the images of mothers cited here are known and familiar to everyone, so they have a certain representativeness. In fact, even if they are our own mothers, they will also have these wonderful personality traits and spiritual qualities, the only difference is that only we know them well.