Why is it different from the drama? Why is there no blood for the first time? How can I prove that this is my first time?
It is important to know that not every woman bleeds for the first time. The reason why women bleed for the first time is mostly caused by the rupture of the hymen. If there is no bleeding for the first time is normal, there may be these 5 main reasons.
1. There are almost no blood vessels in the hymen. If the hymen is very thin and there are almost no blood vessels on the hymen, then there will be no visible bleeding during the first time, even if the hymen is broken.
2. The hymen breaks before the first time. If you have had more strenuous activities as a teenager or young child, such as cycling, or when using tampons, it may have caused the hymen to rupture, only you don’t know it. This can also result in no bleeding the first time, but it doesn’t indicate that sex was ever had. (So, stop obsessing about the first time there was no blood, it doesn’t make much sense!)
3, the hymen is not broken at all. If the hymen is very thick, and the hole above is relatively large, in the first time may not rupture, there will be no bleeding; and if the hymen is thin, and more elastic, in the first time after sex, it also maintains its original shape, and there is no rupture, there will be no bleeding; and then there is the first time, your boyfriend is more gentle, the action range is small, etc. may also make the hymen did not rupture, thus No bleeding occurred.
4, no hymen. Some women are born without a hymen, so how can you ask it to bleed?
5, did not really have sex. If in the first time, both sides are more nervous and afraid, there is only genital contact but not really into the vagina, that is, there is no real sex life.
In short, there are many reasons why there is no bleeding for the first time. If you really can’t figure out which situation you belong to and you still want to know the exact cause, you can go through a gynecological examination to clarify whether the hymen has broken. In addition, men should not have too strong virginity complex, both partners should have more mutual trust and mutual understanding, will be more conducive to the “sex” life after.
References.
[1] Liu, Haimin. Hymen repair [J]. Health for All, 2012, 8: 70.