Everyone expects to get a beautiful and enjoyable sex life, but such a good experience can not just rely on chance, and can not believe that the fate of the natural, but must be with the knowledge and understanding of sex and physiology. “Making love” is beautiful, and safety is a prerequisite for this beauty, which is co-created by both parties. Study in advance the composition of male and female genitalia diagram, but do not blindly study the sex skills in small movies, after all, art is higher than life. Before sex, choose a private, clean, undisturbed place, such as hotels, bedrooms, etc.. Do a good cleaning of the pubic area in advance, prepare condoms, tissues, wet wipes, lubricating fluid and other items. Fear and resistance to sexual intercourse, such as the belief that sexual intercourse is dirty and unclean behavior, can cause sexual disharmony. The pleasure of sex is greatly enhanced. Bold initiative is not “slutty”, but “give”, take the initiative to master the sovereignty in sex, may bring a different experience, is a new exploration of both sides to try 3, effective foreplay by men and women’s physiological structure of different restrictions, female sexual arousal is often slower A satisfactory sexual experience must be actively created by both parties, rather than one party forcing or one party having fun is enough. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things. 4, change the position in the sex, always keep the same position, like a perpetual motion machine is easy to feel boring, but also may not let both sides get pleasure. Occasionally change the posture and environment, can add interest, get more fresh feelings, so that both sides more harmonious. However, it should be noted that changing positions should not be too frequent, otherwise it is easy to be cut off when the other party has just felt, but the effect is not good. Also keep both sides in sync to avoid injury. 5, respond to each other proactively to their own feelings at the moment, honestly tell each other to be able to achieve a more wonderful experience, “faster”, “here is very cool”, “a little pain “…… is really embarrassed to say, then use the size and tone of the moan to tell each other. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things. “. After a sexual event, do not hastily, a hug, a deep kiss, from the emotional care for each other, to strengthen the emotional bond, so that both sides more closely. Then clean the pubic area well to avoid infection and other undesirable consequences. References: [1] Wu Junqing,Li Yuyan. Safe and healthy sexual behavior[J]. Chinese Journal of Family Planning,2018,26(2):152-153.[2]Schleppel. 15 sex tips worth learning[J]. Sexual education and reproductive health,2015(1):64-66.