After a long pregnancy, many moms and families are overjoyed by the happy arrival of their sweet baby. Mothers are eager to give their babies all the best things in the world, but in fact, the sweet milk of their mothers is the best gift for their little ones. Breast milk gives the most natural nutrients to the baby and can protect the baby from viruses. At the same time, during the breastfeeding process, the baby can feel the mother’s skin, her body odor and her rhythmic heartbeat in her warm embrace, all of which can bring infinite comfort and security to the baby. So, from the time the child was born, young mothers embarked on the painful and happy road of breastfeeding …… The pain of breastfeeding is said to be the most painful, which knows that breastfeeding is more torturous than this. The next day after giving birth, the two breasts that rise ah …… minute 10,000 grass mud horse in the heart galloping there is wood. The first day after the birth of the baby, the two breasts are up. %@~*&$…… that moment cursing what feel unpleasant there is wood. That which is breast ah, obviously two iron balls! The movement is not, lying is not, which position are painful have wood? But the worst is yet to come! The child was just born, sucking milk inexperienced and not much strength, the new mother had a hard time finding the right position to smoothly stuff the nipple into the mouth of the little one …… ah, ah, ah! The new mother is very easy to find the right position to successfully put the nipple into the mouth of the little one. No, how can not suck out ah, the little guy anxious like ants on a hot pot, barring a few mouthfuls spit out. The iron ball is even harder. My own mother said that this is the mammary glands are not working and we need to find someone to pass the milk! I really want to bawl a: God, save me …… God really invited – doula! The first time I felt more embarrassed than giving birth, lying straight on my back, like a lamb waiting to be slaughtered, or a naked sheep! The worst thing is that there is a large group of spectators next to the husband, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, nanny, seven aunts and eight aunts …… really hate to find a hole in the ground, shame ah! The slaughter began immediately …… breastfeeder along the breast meridians began to massage and knead, no exaggeration to say that every action to people half a life, a variety of taste experienced to understand, look at these several mothers are how to say it: several times more than the pain of childbirth, imagine for yourself! I cried from the pain, I did not cry from the pressure of my stomach. The one who gave me breast milk was as strong as a bull and broke my breast, and now there is a scar. I was looking for a lactationist on the third day after giving birth, and I had a lump that was particularly hard, so I wanted to die, and it was particularly painful, indescribable pain! After the breast was opened, I thought the most painful things would finally be over, but as the story continues you will find that there is an unseen and untouchable pain called – the day does not understand the night’s darkness. I’ve always been curious about how the little one is so easily hungry, just fed for a short time, was woken up by the sound of crying, poor thing just fell asleep at that moment. I can’t help it, feed it …… a night repeatedly tossed, encounter difficult little ancestors, drink full also half day not sleep messy humming, you still have to suppress the inexplicable anger softly lulled to sleep, yes, the combination of the devil and the angel is said to be the middle of the night feeding you! During the breastfeeding period, two sets of pajamas become standard work clothes, as long as the little ancestor a call, ready to lift the clothes on standby. But when it comes to going out, it’s a problem, it’s okay to walk around, it’s a big headache to go out alone. Every time you go out, the biggest headache is what to wear, decent and generous is the second most important thing is to facilitate breastfeeding at any time. If you take your child out together, the most fear is that the baby is not hungry at the right time, if the child is hungry at that moment, but the environment coincidentally does not allow it, you can not do anything about it, you can only find a corner to turn your back on people, embarrassingly lift up the clothes to hold the child to feed, always have to scan around with the afterglow, afraid that someone will look this way …… happen to go out of town The breast pump must be a standard item in your purse. If you happen to be at work at this time, you can only hold back and hope that things will finish quickly, and then run to the bathroom at a speedy pace, sitting alone on the toilet and pulling out the breast pump …… A Weighted Life With two large food bags hanging around every day, you realize that everything you do is restricted, you can’t The actual fact is that you can’t run, you can’t jump, you can’t walk fast enough to feel your breasts shake, and you can’t easily have the waves you’ve always dreamed of, but how can you feel so bad? The embarrassment of leaking milk …… Should every new mother has encountered such a situation, especially the mothers with developed breast milk, woke up in the middle of the night to find themselves half of the bed leaking wet is not a few. The actual fact is, for a mom with a lot of milk, a pillow doesn’t work! The actual fact is that you will find a lot of people who are not able to get the best out of your own home. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who have been in the business for a long time. The little one grows bigger and stronger every day, and can’t resist biting you when he is happy, looking at his innocent little expression, you can’t really get mad. Do not look at a small mouth, but every few hours will have to continue to “salt on the wound”, the taste is not more comfortable than sitting on the tiger bench. Some moms are bitten by the baby, the wound is not healed for a long time, each time the old mouth is not dry new wounds again, to the end of the septic inflammation is also a lot of, hey, to say that are tears ah …… various taboos of torture During breastfeeding, you will be told in order to ensure that the milk is sufficient, which have to eat more, which can not eat. Especially in the first few months, you can drink soup every day until you vomit, and in the summer, when you see people eating watermelon and ice cream, you have to put up with it …… for the sake of your baby, for fear of eating something bad that will affect your baby’s stomach, but also for fear that you will not eat enough milk, so you can only put off the long drawn out weight loss plan in your mind. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a lot of money for the purpose of the project. The actual new mother has not experienced this, but there are a lot of parents who have been tormented by mastitis. The best way to get rid of the stagnant milk is to use it as a culture for bacteria, which can lead to bacterial infections, inflammation, and even high fever in severe cases. The pain of having mastitis, men can never know, can be eliminated with lactation massage techniques is considered Amitabha, if you encounter to cut open drainage treatment, it is a sad ah …… you are not enough milk? Does it sound familiar? The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who have been in the business of breastfeeding, and the people who say this are either the mother-in-law or the mother-in-law, and it’s okay to say a couple of things once in a while. And some mothers-in-law, every day home to say who who who’s daughter-in-law milk can be sufficient, can not drink all have to pour, the implication of who can hear the …… even more, if encounter which day the milk is slightly insufficient, will be blamed for not eating properly, not enough to eat so that the baby did not milk to drink, pro mother ah, I really became a cow not? Tough weaning, reluctant …… Although you have been looking forward to the day of weaning since the first day you learned to breastfeed, when the day really comes, you will know how reluctant you are. The feeling of being close to your baby’s skin has long become a habit, and every little expression of your baby’s satisfaction and enjoyment will make you immensely intoxicated, and suddenly one day it will all come to an end, and you just wish you could delay it for one more day …… and one more day …… The weaning plan has been delayed again and again due to A variety of reasons finally had to be imposed. Always thought the end would be easy, but you’re wrong again …… baby has long been accustomed to the mother’s nipple, rubber head pressed not interested. On the one hand, the baby would rather starve than drink formula, on the other hand, the milk is so high that you would rather squeeze it out and dump it, but also have to be ruthless not to give it to the baby to drink, the mother’s tangle and helplessness no one can understand …… This is what a mother breastfeeding life to experience a little bit, in the long and short breastfeeding period, we have to face the difficulties and embarrassment may be much more than that. The difficulties and embarrassments we have to face during the long and short breastfeeding period may be much more than that. Although the hardships, although also thought of giving up, but see the little baby day by day healthy growth, you tell yourself, it is worth it! Cheers to every mother.