When your child asks you to play with him, your impatient expression of boredom annoys his curiosity; when your child is slow to put on his clothes and tie his shoes, your impatient expression of boredom helps him to lose his independence; when your child asks you to play with him, your impatient expression of boredom makes him feel lonely; when your child is telling you his worries, your impatient expression of boredom interrupts his words and knocks away his affinity; when your child reports his failing grades, your impatient expression of boredom scolds him, scolding him to lose his self-confidence; when your child lies for fear of being beaten, your impatient expression of boredom makes him feel lonely When a child reports a failing grade, you scold him for being impatient and scold his self-confidence; when a child lies for fear of being beaten, you give him a real beating for being impatient and beat away his sense of honesty; when a child asks you to tell another story, you make excuses for being impatient and push away his desire to learn. Telling stories to young children who can’t yet read is the first hurdle to developing reading skills. Young children ask their mothers to tell them stories every night, and some even ask for a story to be told over and over again. However, many mothers either don’t want to tell more because they are too busy with household chores, or they can’t insist on telling their children every day. Is it just a story? It’s not too late for him to read a book and read for himself. To give up storytelling is to give up the opportunity to develop your child’s language skills and to give up the cultivation of early interest in reading. If she can make the connection between storytelling and vocabulary building, language development, and the development of future reading habits, you may not run out of patience. Listening is a way to maintain good communication and understand your child’s inner world, and it is an essential tool to nurture your child’s curiosity and wonder. However, many parents tend to interrupt their children impatiently, or to be absent-minded and perfunctory. Why can’t they listen attentively and carefully? Some think that children’s words are after all children’s words, not much meaning, too lazy to listen; some happen to be in a bad mood, do not have the heart to listen; some are not interested in children’s topics, do not want to listen. For example, some children are very curious and love to ask questions about a certain issue, parents ask impatient when the topic will be interrupted, which actually interrupts the child’s curiosity and sense of wonder, and extinguishes the child’s exploration and enterprising spirit. Another example is that the child is enjoying his soccer game, while the parents do not have this hobby, and the child does not have a common language, gradually, the distance between the two generations will be pulled apart, the generation gap has arisen. On the one hand, parents are complaining that their children have grown up and their relationship is no longer as close as it was when they were young, and on the other hand, they are unwilling to patiently enter the world of their children’s lives and “accommodate” their children’s hobbies. Whenever my child comes to me to talk, I always smile and listen carefully to him, listen to him talk about astronomy and geography, general science, etc., and pretend to understand what I don’t understand, showing interest and echoing; patiently listen to his statement of sesame and green beans, and promptly raise the relevant topics and he discusses, sometimes to the point of red. What our children say may seem small to us, but to them it is a big deal, something worth talking about. If we all listen patiently to every voice of our children, and take every question of our children seriously, we can still worry that the relationship between father (mother) and son cannot be improved?