The first time a woman has sex, it can be a bit painful. One is pain caused by slight damage to the hymen and vagina due to intercourse; the second is pain caused by excessive emotional stress and vaginal contraction; the third is pain caused by mild vulvodynia or vaginal inflammation. Preparing your mind before intercourse and not having too much stress can also help to reduce pain. Men who are good at taking care of girls can ease the pain to a great extent. Increase foreplay time, the first time before the tease is very important, if the male can largely tease to play the maximum libido, to do the whole body and mind relaxation, vaginal secretions will also increase, in the penis when entering will not lead to pain due to friction aggravated. The pain will be a short time when entering, very mild, just a little bit of pain will pass. After the first intercourse the hymen damage area needs two or three days of healing, it is best not to have intercourse again for a few days to avoid causing pain leading to intercourse shadows.