For the first time sex we hold curiosity and fear, all imagine it is very painful, in fact, everyone pain domain is different, different women’s first time pain is different, some women have no pain for the first time, but some women are very painful, also in the two or three days after intercourse vagina has uncomfortable swelling. Everyone in the beginning of the first sexual life, the woman should also take the initiative to cooperate, try to overcome the tension and fear of psychology, mental more relaxed, sexual excitement aroused, vaginal secretions increased, good lubrication, can reduce the pain during sexual intercourse, but also to reduce the pain caused by the hymen is abraded. The first time you have intercourse you need to be well prepared, the man should try not to be too hasty, wait for the woman to enter the state and then enter slowly to minimize the damage and fear of the first time. It is best to go to the hospital for examination and treatment under the guidance of a doctor if there is more bleeding after intercourse or if there is still pain in the vagina after two or three days. Once the vaginal inflammation or deformity continues, intercourse can lead to damage that can affect your sex life in the future and create a fear of sex. With the growth of sexual knowledge and experience after marriage, the two sides will soon return to normal with tacit cooperation.