Sexual frigidity after having a second child must be actively treated, mainly self-adjustment treatment and psychological treatment, etc., and if it is more serious, medication is also needed. Self-adjustment treatment mainly focuses on the main causes of sexual frigidity, for example, it may be due to the fact that after having a second child, there is always the fear of pregnancy, the fear of miscarriage after pregnancy, so it will bring a lot of pain, so as to avoid sexual contact. It is also possible that because there is a great deal of damage after giving birth to a first or second child, the body recovers poorly, which may cause a lot of unpleasant experiences in the psyche. At this point, it is important to actively communicate and exchange information with one’s loved ones, while using protective measures so that one can alleviate unpleasant experiences and forget about unpleasantness or anxiety problems brought about by worrying about pregnancy and so on. As for psychotherapy, mainly for people with serious psychosexual problems, cognitive-behavioral therapy can be considered or humanistic therapy, family therapy, etc. can be considered. For example, if the problem of sexual frigidity is caused by family relationship conflicts and marital discord, you can seek the help of a counselor with your lover, communicate with each other and understand each other’s attitudes, so that you can slowly alleviate the problem of relationship tension, thus alleviating the problem of sexuality caused by relationship tension. If the problem is caused by endocrine abnormalities, hypothyroidism, etc., medication should also be administered. If the frigidity is caused by emotional problems such as excessive stress, anxiety or depression, or inability to have fun, you can also consider taking medications for intervention and treatment, such as sertraline, fluoxetine, etc. No matter which method, make sure to choose the right one for you to go for.