The first problem, or family dispute, comes after the birth of a baby: how does the baby sleep? With mom and dad or sleep by themselves? Some say sleep together in the adult bed, some say let the baby sleep alone in the cot, each with their own reasons, our big truth is: the baby sleeps alone in the crib, and the crib is put next to mom and dad’s big bed. It is not recommended for small babies to sleep with their parents in the big bed. “If you don’t sleep in our big bed, it is inconvenient to feed and look after the baby at night”, well, this is the reason that has the highest “vote share”. Indeed, the most direct benefit of sleeping together is the convenience of the mother can feed at night, especially in the winter to reach the baby, do not have to get up “a second to freeze awake”, or be woken up by the baby’s cry. There are also parents who say that babies and their own sleep will feel more secure, more parent-child relationship, but also when the baby wakes up in the night, better to soothe him. These claims do have some truth to them, but more importantly, these two words: safety. Small babies, especially newborns, and parents sleeping in the same big bed is too dangerous: sleeping parents pressed to the baby themselves do not feel; pillows, bedding and other relative to the baby too much too heavy, it is easy to cover the baby’s mouth and nose, the whistling system is not mature baby, there will be a risk of suffocation; at the same time, the baby is also very easy to fall asleep from the adult bed fall …… Even if these are not, parents whistle out too much carbon dioxide, oxygen consumption is great, the little baby which “fight” over ah, will be brain hypoxia, it is easy to sleep poorly, night waking crying and even affect growth and development. By the way, there are also the sound of the whistling of fathers, the sound of the sky, who can sleep well? If mom and dad happen to be sick, it is also likely that the bacteria and germs will be transmitted to the baby, and that will be a problem. How can a baby sleep well? If you don’t sleep in the same bed with your parents, how can your baby sleep in order to balance safety and adult care and breastfeeding and many other things? The best thing is that the baby sleeps in his own crib, and then the crib is placed next to the parents’ big bed, each sleeps in its own bed, so that it is easy to look after and not to interfere, and also to give the baby enough security. But don’t put too many toys and clothes and bedding in the baby’s crib to avoid the risk of suffocation, the baby’s special sleeping bag can also be prepared. Bed-sharing can also cultivate good sleeping habits from a young age, so that babies are more likely to accept sleeping in their own rooms when they grow up. If, because of various circumstances such as visiting friends and relatives, you don’t have your own bed for a while and have to sleep in the same bed with your parents? The first thing to do is to find something to enclose the bed or simply against the wall (at least the side where the baby sleeps) so as not to fall down; then it is best to let the baby sleep on one side instead of between mom and dad; mom and dad, do not smoke or drink before going to bed, and do not take sedative drugs, etc., so as not to sleep too heavily at night. How to sleep after 1 year old baby? At around 1 year old, babies are stronger and have their own sleeping habits, so it’s not uncommon for them to kick the covers in the middle of the night. How to sleep? Still sleep in a crib, in the same room with mom and dad. But the distance can be a little farther than the small baby stage, to be able to see, in time to soothe the baby can also be considered for the next preparation. The next is when the baby is 2-3 years old, you can try to let the little one to sleep in their own room, to develop good sleep habits and independence from an early age. Of course, this age of sleeping in separate rooms, or mainly to try, can that is the best, can not be forced, and then share a room with parents for a period of time. 3-5 years old, are reading kindergarten, of course, the baby needs to sleep independently, parents in the first few years of the foundation, step by step to encourage and guide the baby to sleep in their own small room Oh, so that it is conducive to the healthy growth of babies. So, for the healthy growth of the baby, the crib is ready.