The first time you “have sex”, 9 out of 10 girls who have experienced it will tell you that it hurts! And they think it’s normal. Not only that, but most people feel that the pain is caused by a broken hymen. In fact, this concept is wrong, the real reason for the first “pain when shy” is “too nervous”, “not enough lubrication”, “vaginal tears The real cause of pain during the first time is “too nervous”, “not enough lubrication”, “vaginal tear” and so on. First, too nervous. The more nervous you are, the more uncomfortable you feel; plus the nerve endings in the vagina are rich, which can aggravate the foreign body sensation of the ding-dong entering the vagina; in addition, if the man is also experiencing for the first time, he may not be able to grasp the strength enough, which may also aggravate the pain. In fact, there is no need to be so nervous, put away the shyness and anxiety of each other, more relaxation, more tenderness, in order to better enjoy the “comfortable” feeling! Second, not enough lubrication. Although the vagina is more elastic, but in the case of insufficient lubrication, the hard ding in will also lead to pain. Therefore, sufficient “foreplay” and the use of lubricants can effectively reduce the pain of the first time. If you don’t have experience, you have to prepare a little bit beforehand, a little bit more love talk, a little bit more lubrication, it will be much better. Third, vaginal tearing. If the male partner is too hard, improper posture, may lead to vaginal tearing and bleeding. At the same time, if the girl suffers from vaginitis, cervicitis and other diseases, it will also be more likely to painful bleeding. Although the first time to make people want to stop, you and I, but do not forget to grasp the strength, give her the most secure and gentle. In addition, if there is severe pain with slight penetrative stimulation, consider the possibility of vaginal cramps and suggest a timely visit to the hospital to clarify the specific cause. Girls are naturally afraid of pain, especially for the first time, and perhaps the pleasure is based on her countless times of pain and distention. Love her, you should show your professional charm in this area, give her a full range of consideration, in order to better enjoy each other’s beautiful first time. The first time a girl takes the initiative to meet the first time, she must do a good job of personal hygiene and cleanliness, contraceptive protection, observation afterwards, to avoid the damage brought about by improper sex for the first time, such as tearing, haemorrhage, unwanted pregnancy. 2, when girls are out socially, please remember to protect themselves, and the opposite sex to maintain a safe distance; pay attention to food safety; do not walk alone at night; and not too much contact with the unfamiliar opposite sex late at night, to avoid another regrettable event. In order to avoid the occurrence of another thing you regret.