“The first time is sacred and unforgettable; it’s wonderful, but it can also be accompanied by some pain. So the question is, how painful is the first time a girl has sex? In fact, it is not as painful as we think, about 75% of girls in the first time sex, only feel a slight pain, some girls may not feel pain. The World Health Organization (WHO) classifies pain levels into 0 degrees – Ⅳ degrees: 0 degrees means no pain. I degree indicates mild pain, which is intermittent and does not affect sleep and rest. Ⅱ degree indicates moderate pain, which may affect rest and require the use of painkillers if necessary. Ⅳ degree indicates severe pain, with continuous severe pain and accompanied by changes in blood pressure and pulse rate. Most of the girls’ first time sex pain is mostly mild pain of degree I, which basically does not cause harm to the body; only a small number of girls may feel pain of degree II. Why does the “first time” hurt? Many people believe that the reason why the first time a girl will be painful is because the first time sex will cause the hymen to “rupture”, “be torn”, and even bleeding, which is also known as “red”. The reason for the pain is that the first time a girl has sex it causes her hymen to “rupture”, “be torn” and even bleed, also known as “seeing red”. In fact, the pain does not have much to do with the hymen. The hymen is a folded film around the outer vaginal opening, with a hole in the center of the film, called the hymenopore, which is mostly round in shape. Because the hymen itself is pore-shaped, it does not change as a result of sex, and it does not cause severe pain. The so-called “redness” is mainly due to the damage to the vaginal mucosa caused by excessive tension, insufficient lubrication, etc. It is not a testimony of any “virginity”, and not everyone’s “first It is not a testimony of “virginity” and not everyone’s “first time” will bleed. You need to get out of your misconceptions to treat your first time correctly! To face the real cause of pain, you can better avoid pain! If the sexual partner is too rough, insufficient lubrication or the girl is intolerant to pain, etc., it may cause the girl to produce severe pain. At this time, it is recommended that foreplay time can be appropriately long, kissing, hugging and touching can make girls sexually excited, produce pleasure, wait until the vagina is fully wet and then slowly enter, a little more gentle action, and a little more thoughtful, the pain will be greatly reduced. If a girl feels too much pain, she should stop having sex immediately and rest for a while before continuing, or wait until the next time when she is well prepared. A girl’s fear of the first experience of sex can lead to local muscle spasms in the vagina and even more severe pain during the first sex. It is advisable to have a good communication between the partners before having sex for the first time, so as not to let the impulse of the moment lead to a poor experience or even failure of the “first time”. During sex, give more comfort to the girl, from the psychological relief of the girl’s nervousness. If the pain is unbearable, it may also be the girl’s body discomfort. This time, it is recommended to actively seek medical attention to identify and treat the causes of discomfort in time to avoid more serious consequences. The first experience is wonderful, but don’t forget to take safety measures to avoid unnecessary harm to the girl’s body.