Embarrassing! What’s wrong with not being able to get in for the first time? What should I do? The first time sex, may be due to inadequate preparation, too nervous, exuberant, inexperienced and other reasons, and can not enter the situation, this is normal, no need to worry too much and anxiety. However, if you are familiar with the following 4 points before opening the first time, you can greatly increase the probability of successfully entering the first time. 1, learn in advance, fully prepared It is recommended that before having sex for the first time, actively learn the necessary physiological knowledge and sexual health knowledge, including familiar with female reproductive structure, understanding the correct sex position, good protection measures. The first time is very important, don’t be embarrassed because you can’t find the place. 2, relaxed mood, avoid tension Both men and women should open the first time before the good communication and emotional exchange, to eliminate each other’s psychological pressure, relaxed mood. If the woman is overly nervous, there may be vaginal spasms, which will lead to the man not being able to enter; and the man is too emotionally tense, which may cause the penis is not firm enough, impotence, which will also lead to the inability to enter the situation. 3, increase foreplay, adequate lubrication before the sexual act, must do a good job of lubrication, so as not to dry the private parts and cause pain, which will lead to failure to enter. Adequate foreplay can not only stimulate the flow of secretion and increase lubrication, but also make women have orgasms (such as proper touching of female sexual organs), so that the vaginal opening becomes relatively loose, which will greatly increase the possibility of successful entry. 4, slowly enter, do not make brute force The male party should find the right position to go in gently, the action should be gentle, do not use brute force, so as not to cause the female party severe pain, and then cause difficulty in entering. When the woman secretes more fluid, then insert, so the possibility of success is very high. In addition, the female partner’s hymen is too tight, hypertrophic, congenital atresia, abnormal vaginal shape, etc., which can also lead to inability to enter, but there are very few women in this situation, if necessary, you need to see a gynecologist in time for relevant examination and treatment. If the male partner has psychological erectile dysfunction, he also needs to actively seek medical attention from a urologist. In general, if there are no problems with sexual function and deformities of the genital tract, and if the above preparations are made later before sex, with the increase and accumulation of sexual experience, sex will basically be successfully completed within the next few times. References: [1] Liu Defeng, How to start your first “sexual journey”. Popular Health, 2021(430):108-109.