It is the nature of parents to love their children. But we have to love our children sensibly. If the child has the following kinds of behavior, must be stopped, never soft. First, can not get on the hands of children playing in the sand, one of them grabbed up a small partner’s toy bulldozer, unsuccessful, a bite to each other’s small hands. As a result, the bulldozer as desired. Suggestions for parents: for the biting child, parents must be seriously criticized, let him know, biting is not right, has caused harm to the children, must personally apologize; at the same time, let him understand that the children, if they are not willing to lend toys to their own to play, he should learn to accept that this is not as good as it should be. In addition to criticizing and reasoning, a certain amount of punishment is essential, and the opposite of punishment will be presented to him: pampering and pacifying the bitten child. Thus, the child understands that attacking others is not only impossible to succeed, but also can not get any benefits, and then consciously abandon aggressive behavior. Second, see the toys will not go in the supermarket, you refused to buy Barbie dolls, but the daughter is holding tightly, let you how to explain not to let go, but also a butt sitting on the ground. Advice to parents: show your attitude to the child: not to buy a toy today, splashing and crying is useless. If the child does not listen to parents, unreasonable, may wish to ignore, continue to choose other items, or pretend to leave, let it sit on the ground crying. It is unwise to compromise, otherwise the child’s willfulness will intensify. After the child is calm, through reasoning or storytelling, etc., so that it understands that understanding of the child to attract people to like, spilling, crying is the result of nothing to get, and annoying. Third, goat children show you a pair of pocket-sized crystal shoes, tell you that it is from the children’s home on the ground to pick up. Suggestions for parents: Immediately take the child to return the item, so that he personally apologize: “I’m sorry, I took your things home to play, now back to you, please forgive me.” Through the process of “returning things to their rightful owners,” children can learn to admit their mistakes. 3, 4-year-old children do not have the concept of “property rights” and belonging to the consciousness, think they like, want to be their own. Parents should not take the attitude of “never do it again”. Remember the old saying: do not take the good small, do not take the bad small. Fourth, the sleep does not sleep 10 o’clock at night, the child should go to bed, but the dolls and stuffed animals spread to the bed, continue to play, refused to sleep. Suggestions for parents: point to the cartoon wall clock, signaling the child to bedtime, tell him to rest on time to ensure that the next day to school is not late. No child ever goes to bed of his own accord; they never have enough fun. If parents allow their children to go to bed late again and again, it is difficult to develop a regular routine and good habits. So, no matter what excuse a child gives, parents need to find a way to refuse. Five, lying 6-year-old child to perform “martial arts”, the vase shattered. When his mom asked him about it, he said it was the cat that did it. Suggestions for parents: Encourage your child to tell the truth: “Tell Mommy, what happened? It’s not scary to drop the vase, it’s scary to be afraid to admit it. Mom likes children who are honest and brave enough to take responsibility for their actions.” In order to dispel the child’s concerns, encourage him to tell the truth, and after the child to tell the truth the first time to “embrace” him, praise him. Children over the age of 6 or 7 know it’s wrong to lie, but they do it to avoid punishment. If you believe his words, or even if you do not believe it is not pursued, it is tantamount to promoting this vice, so that he is in the mire of lies deeper and deeper.