A recent survey by the All-China Women’s Federation found that nearly 60% of professional women in China are suffering from varying degrees of “frigidity”, of which white-collar women account for a large proportion. So, what is the reason for this situation? Generally speaking, female sexual dysfunction refers to a group of diseases caused by certain psychological factors, lack of correct sexual knowledge or certain organic lesions, including low libido, sexual arousal disorder, orgasmic disorder. Among them, low libido is the most common, which is also known as “frigidity”. “Low libido is categorized into primary and secondary. Primary refers to the patient has never experienced sexual pleasure in the past, mostly related to physiological qualities, pre-marital sexual trauma (such as having been raped), etc.; and secondary refers to the enthusiasm and feelings for sex, by the influence of various factors and lead to low libido The white-collar women to secondary is the most common. The pressure of work makes them put most of their energy on coping with the boss. At the same time, due to the relatively young age, sex has not yet produced a strong sense of dependence. Over time, it is also from the newly married “sexual interest” indifferent to the “sexual interest is not lit”. Perhaps for some white-collar women do not have a sex life does not matter. But sexual life is the normal performance of human physiological function, is also an important and indispensable part of the couple’s life. If a woman has a sexual dysfunction and does not actively look for the cause of treatment, it is inevitable to neglect their other half. The consequences of this can be as simple as alienating him from you, or as serious as causing him to cheat on his wife (for the vast majority of men sex is indispensable). In order to salvage such a situation, it is recommended that women with these problems receive early treatment. First of all, you should find out why you are not interested in sex, and at the same time, you can use the female sexual function self-assessment questionnaire to make a preliminary understanding. If it is caused by psychological factors, then communicate with their female friends or psychiatrists, so as to liberate the “sexual thoughts” is the most important treatment method; if it is to remove other organic diseases caused by secondary low libido, the treatment can be through their own masturbation or the use of oscillators to enhance sexual dependence; with the elimination of fatigue, relieve tension and thus increase libido. Aromatherapy, which has the ability to eliminate fatigue, relieve tension and thus increase libido, is also a good choice. In addition, the help of the “other half” is also essential. Starting from the simplest kissing, to mutual caressing, to genital stimulation, gradually cultivate “sexual interest”. This kind of treatment is generally a long time in stages, do not rush, and can not have a sexual desire immediately forced orgasm. And two people together to soak a rose petal hot bath, with him together to recall all the romantic scenes when in love, exchange your sexual sensitive zone, this “bath therapy” is not only beneficial to the body and mind, more proven to be effective in enhancing libido, closer to the distance between husband and wife, before the same room for better results. If these methods have been carried out for a period of time or no effect, then you need to go to the hospital to receive a formal examination. Under the guidance of the doctor can be carried out sexy concentration training and other therapeutic means or the use of drugs to improve libido. I believe that after clarifying the cause of the disease, long-term training and treatment, female friends of low libido will have a great improvement. Only sexual health, work and family will be smooth and harmonious.