The purpose of education is to develop habits. To some extent, habits can determine the fate of a person’s life. Early childhood is the beginning of life, and it is also the stage when various behavioral habits are formed. Parents should pay attention to the cultivation and inculcation of good habits, such as living habits, reading habits, labor habits and so on. Parents must not condone their children’s bad habits. The power of habit is huge, 90% of a person’s daily activities are constantly repeating the original action, habitual action is subconscious, without the brain to think, without the will to control. Bad habits, the negative impact on a person’s life is also difficult to estimate. If a child has the following three bad habits, parents must not indulge, must help the child to correct in a timely manner. A dependent, non-thinking, encounter problems to parents. This is a mother sent to help: My child is 5 years old, independence is very poor, especially dependent on his mother, not only dressing and eating and other self-care skills, but also in other aspects of life, for example, when drawing can not open the color pencil box, will not think of their own way, is to find their mother; play slide and children conflict, will not face their own, is crying to find their mother; watch cartoons raised in the problem, will not think for themselves The answer is to ask your mother …… Independence is a good habit for a person; love of thinking is a good quality for a person. People who are used to relying on others are often more psychologically fragile and cannot withstand the storm. We love our children, we must be willing to let go and let them go on their own. How many years can we have our children? There is an attachment that is meant to be separated! Suggestions: In daily life, parents should not be too vicarious, too protective; communication, more questions to the child, to stimulate her thinking skills; encourage children to use their own brains to complete things, do not forget to give a little inspiration at the right time; let the child have a sense of achievement, to help build confidence. The second desire is not met, you will lose your temper, emotions, and even hitting people. Some time ago, I went out with a few friends, one of the friends of the child 5 years old, just three days together, the boy’s fiery temper, so that everyone is broken! Watching TV, he said to watch the children’s channel, his mother only slowed down a second of time, he actually grabbed the remote control desperately smashed to the TV, while also tearing screaming; dinner, he drank a lot of drinks, his mother said not to drink too much, the result he actually slapped his mother on the head, but also justifiably crying; friends playing poker together, he wanted to play, gave him a separate pair, who knew that he Not appreciate, must play adults, a rage to the whole table overturned …… other people’s children, I will not interfere. The only thing I do is to remind parents of their children: they must help their children correct their bad habits as soon as possible. If you want the world to revolve around him alone and get furious when the slightest wish is not fulfilled, then you will surely bump your head when you grow up in society in the future! When he encounters rejection, encounters failure, encounters frustration, will not have a good mind to face the problem, not to mention can not solve the problem rationally. Suggestion: to let children learn to wait, learn to consider the feelings of others, learn to control emotions. A friend’s child is already 8 years old and in elementary school, I took my son Howie to his house to play. He first took out a bunch of puzzles and put them together with Howie. When Howie was still immersed in them, he suddenly ran away and rushed to the room and took out an Ultraman Transformation toy. Howe looked up and down again, still focused on the unfinished job in hand. The little brother grunted and gestured twice, then turned around and turned on the TV again and said to Hahaohao, “Brother, let’s watch Grey Wolf, shall we?” Howie very calmly said, “Don’t trifle.” It made the little brother’s mom’s jaw drop. Yes, when Hahao was 2 years old, I told him in life that he should not be double-minded in doing things. A friend is very annoyed, said her son has always been like this, three minutes hot, impatient, can not persist, now at school, the teacher also criticized him can not focus, always looking around, home to do homework, also very dawdling, originally half an hour to complete the matter, he east a hammer head west a stick, a moment to watch TV a moment to play toys, can actually toss two hours. Suggestions: If you do things from childhood without beginning to end, it may be difficult to grow up to become a weapon, not necessarily to do something amazing and great, even if the completion of the smallest things, but also need a serious commitment and persistent attitude, and, can not focus, it means that work, life is not efficient, double-minded and snakeheaded, but also makes people feel a lack of responsibility. Editor’s note: Children are not at fault, parents are responsible. Parents have an inescapable responsibility for the formation of the above vices. Excessive obedience will lead to selfish and rude children; excessive protection will lead to weakness and incompetence of children. So, to change your child, start by changing yourself!