This is the key stage to educate your baby to understand manners, just because your baby starts to have a rebellious mind, so you should start from the basics and guide your child properly to speak politely, as long as the method is right, you will definitely teach a good baby who understands manners. Does your baby not like to talk when he goes out? Are they reluctant to greet others? Does he or she often fight with children? Does he or she sit down at the dinner table in an awkward manner? Does your child embarrass you in front of friends? Sometimes a few swear words will pop out of your mouth? You must have encountered these problems, perhaps you are now distressed, thinking how this child does not learn the good things, but learn some bad things ah? But have you ever thought that parents are also responsible for their children’s lack of manners? The reason why children are not polite 1, parents are not strict discipline parents are the first teacher of children, as the saying goes, “raise not teach, father’s fault”, parents have a great responsibility in the growth of children’s education. From the moment a child is born, it is like a pure and innocent white paper, and a large part of what will be presented on the paper comes from the parents’ words and teachings. However, Chinese parents are more concerned about their children’s health and achievements, and rarely emphasize the cultivation of good behavior to their children, or even allow them to behave wrongly. Children are innocent, and the failure of parental education eventually leads to uncivilized, polite, and even indistinguishable from right and wrong in serious cases. The growth and development of a person is closely related to the society he lives in, especially for young and uninitiated children, social influence is even greater. We are all parents or soon-to-be parents, so we must not have the mentality of “not caring, hanging high”, thinking “it’s not my child, it’s not my business”. Every move we make affects the atmosphere of the society and the environment in which our children grow up. If a child is infected by a bad culture, he or she will go astray on the road to growth. For the phenomenon of impolite children, you may think that the child is still young, do not know what to do, grow up will understand. This “nature is straight” idea is very wrong. Indeed, it’s hard to force a two-year-old to chew without opening his mouth, even if it’s the most basic table manners for us. But when you try to explain “manners” to your child and tell him what to do and what not to do, you will be surprised to find that he is slowly starting to accept and learn through your reactions to certain behaviors. The sooner you get him to understand the concept of “manners,” the faster he will learn and the less resistant he will be when it comes time for more specific learning. How to teach your child to be polite 1, a family of three watching TV, the child suddenly took the remote control in his father’s hand without a word, changed to his favorite cartoon channel, watching with great interest. Solution: Set a good example for your child When this happens to your child, moms and dads can think back and see if they have done similar behavior in front of their children. Did the mother grab the remote control from the father’s hand? Right, the child is learning from the adults! So parents need to start by setting an example, which is always easier said than done. But it’s really one of the most straightforward ways – want to have a good baby with good manners? Then be a polite one. At the age of two, your baby wants nothing more than to lean on mommy and daddy. The next time you want to change the channel, say something like, “Could you please pass me the remote? I want to watch the news.” If your child hears her parents say polite words at home on a regular basis, then she will learn to use them as well. 2. When the Chinese New Year arrives, take your child to a friend’s house to pay respects, but your child is silent at the friend’s house, not saying a word and not even saying “thank you” for receiving the red envelope. The solution: let the child start from the basics Although some polite words at home and not less taught, but the baby appeared this phenomenon, but it is easy to be mistaken for a lack of tutoring, so parents should start from the basics, teach by example. Saying “please” and “thank you” is the first polite word parents teach their children, and this learning process can begin when the child can communicate with some simple words, usually after the child is one year old. It will take a very long time for your child to master “please” and “thank you,” and once he or she has mastered and begun to use them in communication, you may find yourself forming the habit of subconsciously adding more polite words to everyday conversations and slowing down the pace of speech for your The child should repeat the phrase. 3. Take your child to a wedding banquet, and within a few minutes of sitting down, your child starts to squirm and squirm, unable to sit still, and in the end, he or she is crying and clamoring to go home, much to the embarrassment of the mother. The solution: let children eat at the same table For two-year-olds, “sitting upright” for five minutes is a difficult challenge, because children often can not sit. Within a few moments of sitting quietly, little eyes start to look around, little hands start to grab things, little feet start to stare, and some even cry and ask their mothers to hold them, or go play somewhere else, as mentioned above. Therefore, parents need to train their children’s stamina in their daily lives, and eating at home is a perfect opportunity to do so. First of all, make sure that the goals you set are reasonable. It is almost impossible to keep your child’s butt glued to the chair for 15 minutes at once, so you need to set a gradual incremental goal, from the first 5 minutes slowly increasing until he has mastered the skill. When you have guests or relatives over, tell your child in advance, “This is a chance for you to do well, and you can show them your newly learned sitting posture!” After he succeeds in doing so, give him appropriate encouragement and praise, but remember not to go too far, otherwise he will think he has done a great thing, and then gloat. 4, in the shopping met an acquaintance, the child shyly has been hiding behind the mother not to speak, let him shout “auntie good” also reluctant to speak. Solution: Encourage your child to greet you politely When your child is two years old, he must have learned to say “hello” when he sees his friends and “goodbye” when he says goodbye, but he is always reluctant to talk or speak very quietly because he is shy or afraid of life. Anyway, this is a good start, so keep giving them encouragement! Let them greet people more cheerfully and generously when they go out. This will smooth the way for them to learn manners in the future and make it easier for them to receive further education on manners, such as saying “nice to meet you” and shaking hands. 5.The child got into a fight with a child in kindergarten, and the teacher said it was because his little truck was played with by the child next to him for a while. Solution: Let the child be friendly with his peers The child’s first fight is often related to toy sharing, because in his opinion, it is rude for others to ask him for toys. Parents can’t expect their child to be a saint and share everything, but they can teach and guide him, telling him not to hog all the toys, whether at home or at kindergarten, but to play with other children so that he can have more fun. At this age, it is difficult for children to understand what “sharing” means, so parents need to affirm their children’s success in taking the first step, for example, “You lent your little truck to Ming Ming to play with? Baby, you are great!” Every word and deed of the baby directly reflects the parent’s education, if the child does not know how to behave, then parents must reflect on their own responsibility, it is because of their own improper education, so that the child has these behavioral performance. In order for babies to grow up healthier and more fully, parents need to take responsibility for education and guidance and play a good role as a role model.