Children’s concentration needs to be “protected” and “nurtured” rather than “trained”

Human concentration is not “trained” but protected, that is, when the child is playing or concentrating on one thing, do not bother the child, this is in the protection of the child’s concentration. Nowadays, many families are the daytime elderly with children, the elderly with children to eat and sleep well, just like a pet puppy, the elderly will care more about the child’s body, rather than psychological, so even when the child is playing or focusing on one thing, the elderly feel that the child is playing there for a long time without water and food for fear that the child is hungry. So, a moment to ask the child to drink water, a moment to take some fruit over to feed the child to eat, a moment to ask the child to pee, a moment and …… good focus on this “ignorant love” situation is destroyed, over time, the child can not be a long time The first thing you need to do is to think about this and that for a while, which will certainly affect your attention in elementary school in the future. So we should learn to protect our children’s concentration, when the child is playing, give the child sufficient free space, let the child to explore, do not disturb the child, over time, the child’s concentration will naturally be “cultivated” out. How to protect the child’s concentration? 1, do not interrupt the baby when the baby is concentrating on something, such as painting, reading a book, playing with water, playing with blocks, figuring out a piece of equipment, no one should interrupt him. However, for daily life activities that require a point in time, such as eating, sleeping, etc., it is necessary to control the baby’s concentration time, and let the baby develop a fixed habit, so that the baby’s life and rest because to protect the concentration and become abnormal is not good! 2, each time to give the baby toys no more than 2 Mom put a few big boxes of toys in the living room, take it for granted that what the baby wants to play on what to play. In fact, this is a very wrong approach. Baby toys he does not know what to play, it is easy to lead to baby attention distraction. It is recommended that you give your baby no more than two toys at a time, and if your child is fond of two toys, you can teach your baby to play with one toy before playing with the next. 3, not allowed to watch TV when eating Many mothers have bad habits, like to watch TV when eating, there are also many toys on the table, so then the baby’s attention is very easy to distract. When eating is eating, put everything away, even to turn off the TV, so that the baby only do one thing at a time, focus on eating. 4, keep your baby away from noise If you put your baby in a noisy environment for a long time will affect your baby’s hearing state, this will also affect your baby’s ability to focus later, excessive noise will make your baby unable to focus on the things to focus on, and even affect your baby’s emotional development. Usually the choice of music must also pay attention to the poor quality of music not only affects the baby’s hearing, for the normal functioning of the brain will also have a negative impact! How can parents compensate for babies who are not focused enough? 1, let your baby do some clear instructions and clear requirements Only if the focus is very concentrated, your baby can achieve the tasks you set for him. But be careful not to give too many tasks at once, start with one task first, with clear instructions. For example, a mother can arrange it like this, “Baby first bring the flowers on the table for mommy.” If the baby does well, then increase the tasks, such as the mother can arrange it like this: “Baby first bring the flowers on the table for mommy, and then bring the cup on the table for mommy.” Often trained in this way, step by step, the baby’s concentration will improve day by day. 2. Read books and do puzzles with your baby Mom and baby can read books together to develop your baby’s observation skills, and it is also beneficial to develop your baby’s concentration. It is very helpful to focus your attention on the same thing, so it is important for your mother to be involved in the process of educating your baby. Having your baby do puzzles regularly can also develop your baby’s hand-eye coordination, observation skills and concentration skills. If the baby is very young, you can first use large pieces of pictures for baby training, and then gradually increase. 3, let the baby learn to return things to their original place What the baby took must be returned to their original place, which can develop the baby’s ability to live independently and a responsible attitude. Every time your baby takes a toy, take your baby to see where it came from, let your baby look at it intently and remember it, and then when your baby is done playing with it, let your baby think about where it should be put back. This process not only cultivates the baby to concentrate on observation, but also trains the baby’s memory skills. 4, train your baby to do things on their own Baby’s concentration starts with daily life, so mom should train your baby to do things on their own, such as eating and dressing. At the right age, the baby will need parents to do things for him or her, then the baby does not need to concentrate at all, such as eating, if the baby does not concentrate, the speed of eating will become slower, and the grains of rice will fall all over the floor. This is something that requires the baby’s concentration and hand-eye coordination to work together to complete. The same goes for dressing, putting on pants, buttoning, these things can be done by the baby himself to make his ability to get good training. 5, more baby activities, exercise baby’s physical U.S. research points out that more babies to carry out large body movements, such as crawling, walking, rolling and jumping, etc., can make the brain more active, the nerve connection will be stronger, thinking and reaction ability will progress, so not only physical performance becomes better, usually more spirit, in learning will be more motivated, will also show more focused!