When a child first enters kindergarten, the whole family will have varying degrees of worry: whether the child will not have enough to eat in kindergarten, whether they will miss their family, whether they will be bullied by children …… So after picking up the child, there will be many new topics, in order for the child to better adapt to the collective life of kindergarten, we propose the following “five to” and “no taboos “For parents’ reference. “Five to” 1, walk home The child has just entered kindergarten, leaving the family for a whole day, see the family will have “pampering” performance. Parents can give their children warm hugs when picking them up, but still pay attention to insist that the children walk home by themselves; on the one hand, this age group of children are fully capable of walking home by themselves; on the other hand, insist that the children walk home by themselves, is also to give the child a kind of psychological implication that he has grown up, which is conducive to the child’s psychological maturity. It is normal for a child to have a variety of symptoms when he or she first enters kindergarten. In fact, the child’s discomfort with kindergarten life is often influenced by the environment and adult attitudes. It is recommended that when parents pick up their children, they should try to maintain the calm atmosphere at home and not to overplay their concerns about their children’s kindergarten entrance, so as not to create tension in their children. A calm attitude of parents is a good external environment for children to adapt to kindergarten life soon. The best way to relieve the child’s stress is to relieve the child’s nervousness. After the child returns home, parents should consciously guide the child to recall the joy of the kindergarten day. 4, active communication In order to help children adapt to the new environment as soon as possible, parents should take the initiative to communicate with their children. Talk about a day of kindergarten life, talk about the new friends he made, tell your child stories he likes to listen to, play fun games with your child …… These are all very necessary. 5, active cooperation Kindergarten life is different from home life in many ways, parents should take the initiative to understand their children’s life in kindergarten, games and learning, to further understand the requirements of kindergarten for children, active cooperation with kindergarten, to adhere to the child and kindergarten to maintain “consistent” “consistent It is very necessary to adhere to the “consistent” requirements of the kindergarten. “Five taboos” 1. Sweet water waiting We often see parents picking up their children with a bottle of sweet drinks, fearing that their children will not drink enough water in kindergarten. In fact, every day there is “sweet water waiting”, but will affect the normal drinking water in kindergarten, and in the long run, will affect the health of children. We advocate that children drink plain water, because plain water contains beverages do not have and the human body very much in need of trace elements. 2, the root of the problem The child is away for a whole day, the family’s thoughts are understandable, but after picking up the child home, the whole family around the child to ask this question, not only to make the child bored, but also to strengthen the child into the park “maladjustment”, because the child’s emotions are affected by the objective environment, adult tension and abnormal performance will directly affect the child, so that The child has anxiety. 3, indulge in indulgence When children are unhappy, they often lose their temper inexplicably. Children who are new to kindergarten sometimes appear to be “petulant” or “playful”. This time, parents should not treat him with sympathy, you can use the transfer method to relieve the child’s heart unhappiness, do not “give in to indulge” children. 4, snack compensation Some parents are afraid that their children do not eat enough in kindergarten, back home, a variety of snacks in front of the child to choose. In fact, the result of doing so will prompt the child not to eat dinner properly, because every day there are snacks to supplement the child will eat dinner in kindergarten “left over”, over time, will also affect the child’s health. Parents are a little uneasy about their children who have just entered kindergarten and ask them a lot of questions. Problems. Because children at this stage often confuse imagination with reality, they will say answers that do not match the facts.