The first, riding a donkey looking for a horse mentality This type of man, in their minds there is an ideal partner standard, they will not cherish the girls around, always looking for true love as an excuse to keep on changing girlfriends, and the girl who really loves him, can not stand the feeling of not being valued only away from him. Second, the lack of inner cultivation There is a man on the outside look very instrument, suit, shoes polished shiny, giving a very good first impression. But when he speaks is not so, they only focus on their appearance, thus neglecting the inner knowledge and cultivation, littering in the street, spitting, talking loudly in public, leaving the hotel without turning off the lights and taps, etc. Such a man lacks public morality, and its appearance will also make people resentful. Third, too self-righteous These people always feel that they have good conditions in all aspects, they can easily ignore other people, always feel that the girl is not worth their feelings, they will always be self-righteous, no matter who is with him, need to be better for him, this kind of men are too self-centered, self-righteous, and will eventually lead to women have to leave. Fourth, disparaging former girlfriends These men like to disparage their former girlfriends and talk about how their former girlfriends loved him and did some things for him, always showing complacency and showing a smug look. He even said that his first girlfriend had killed herself for him. When a girl hears these things from him, it can be very uncomfortable. So it will be as far away as possible. A man who is extremely disrespectful to his ex-girlfriend, he may not respect any woman, and such a man will cause women to stay away. Fifth, like to talk about the right and wrong man A whole day is criticizing everyone around him, every day to denigrate others for fun, like to move right and wrong and shake, specializing in talking about gossip things, spread some gossip, reveal others privacy, etc., this kind of man will make many people resent him, the lack of trust, such a man is also very difficult to find a girlfriend. In short, if you have these characteristics of the man, it is generally very difficult to find a girlfriend, because women do not like the poor character of the man, they do not have self-awareness, self-centered, selfish, with such a man, there will be no happiness to speak of. So if you have the above traits of the man, you must change and correct their own these bad character, or it is difficult to find a girlfriend.