On Thursday morning, the patient was in bed without saying a word, and her mother was the only one accompanying her these days. I had heard her mother tell me about the patient’s unfortunate experience as a child (private, not to be described). The patient had become seriously resistant to the disease after nearly six months of suffering. In particular, the patient had torn off three bags in a row after the stoma had been treated by the nurse practitioner the day before when it was supposed to be changed only once a day. Ask her why she did that. She answered easily with three words: discomfort. It seemed to be necessary to do the ideological work on the spot and obtain her cooperation. “Since you are here, you should listen to the medical staff, everything we do is for your own good, it’s just that your condition is complicated, you need to give us some time, and the process can only be done in stages step by step. During this process, you can always communicate with us if you feel there are problems. If you change again, these treatments will also be necessary, but will delay your condition increasing your pain. Now that we have taken the risk of admitting you, we must have your cooperation as we work together to get you well”! Speaking so much in front of a dozen medical staff is obviously wordy, but thankfully, the patient also recognizes his problems from this conversation and slowly tends to accept them. “Well” two, the speech also no longer speak, from the heart of the reading white, probably after many times in other hospitals, has become indifferent, facing me, facing around a group of selfless and kind medical staff, slowly, found for the future treatment obviously positive, see such a situation, can not help but let me breathe a long breath, the patient can actively accept to cooperate with the treatment. The patient was able to take the initiative to cooperate with the treatment, and a long preparatory work was kicked off.