1, to be more close to the big baby. Many mothers feel overwhelmed when they hold their babies, especially in the second trimester, and feel so heavy. This time, do not use this as a reason to refuse to hug the big baby, on the contrary, more happy to agree to the big baby’s request, but change the posture, sit and hug, or husband to help hand over to hug can be. Dad is also actively involved at this time, we all play with the big baby, her attention will be diverted, a moment to hug this to forget. 2, when the big baby is in a mood, must be concerned. If the little baby is crying or something, do not count the big baby do not know how to help and add to the mess. Must first soothe the big baby, the little baby can let the father to manage or really no one, cry for a while. 3, some words should never be said. Is that you are a brother or sister, how can you compete with the little baby? Or you do not know what to give up to younger siblings. Such words should never be said. When the first or second baby, not the child’s own choice, why should they be responsible? Two children, the heart of the hand are flesh, at any time parents should be a bowl of water end level, there is no who let who said, we are all equal, to the reason not to people. 4, the whole pregnancy are included in the first baby. The first instinctive reaction to hearing that your mother is going to have another child is definitely: I don’t want to, or worry that your mother doesn’t love me as much when she has a small baby, etc. These resistances are the most normal reaction. So mothers and fathers must ensure that the child’s sense of security, so they understand that the other baby is with mom and dad to love you, together with your growth, rather than to grab with you. 5, in the name of the second baby bribery big baby. Get some big baby like to eat and drink, say this is the mother’s belly baby please you to eat, on New Year’s Day, in the name of the belly baby to the big baby gifts, this trick many mothers have used, as far as I know, very good. There are also mothers to buy a set of big baby she likes very beautiful clothes, said the baby in the belly welcome her to wear this beautiful clothes as a gift, please take care of the future or something, in short, let the big baby in the belly of the baby to produce a sense of anticipation.