Children from childhood to develop good habits will be used for life, because these habits are related to the future development of the child. Good habits let the child enjoy its interest for a lifetime; bad habits let a lifetime to pay off its debt …… please mom and dad set an example, teach your child to develop these seven good habits, grow up late. “There are no shortcuts to success, but it takes some good habits.” Indeed, if the various destinies of people are broken down and rubbed together, trying to find some laws from them, then good habits, the courage to seize the encounter is something more important than talent. And early childhood is the best time to develop good habits, when the child is like a blank sheet of paper, if you can develop good habits under the guidance of parents, you can slowly show wonderful pictures on this blank sheet of paper, rather than messy strokes. Habit one: do things with a plan Doing things with a plan will win the trust of the people, not to be temporary. Some children are a mess before every exam, do their homework in two minds, often can’t find their socks when they get up for school in the morning, and have no spare money left until the end of the month …… When your child has bad habits in this area, make sure you teach him the importance of planning. It is a good idea to let your child sort out the next day’s schedule before bedtime and have him or her copy it on a sticky note for easy implementation. This is a good habit that will benefit your child for life! Habit 2: Be polite and treat others well Everyone would like to face a smiling face. People who treat others with a smile are always sincere, friendly and generous, and they will be popular everywhere they go. Mothers and fathers should teach their children to be polite, such as saying “hello”, “thank you” and “sorry” in daily life, and using “please help me” when asking for help. “Could you please help me ……?” The sentence, usually more care for others …… long time, the child will harvest more meaningful than polite life wealth. There is a story that a child will take the initiative to greet the old grandfather who watches the door when he goes to school every day. No other child behaved in this way, which impressed the old grandfather. One day when the bell rang, the old grandfather did not wait for the child and was a little worried. As he walked to the intersection to take a look, he saw a man pulling and tugging at the boy, trying to drag him into the van. The old grandfather rushed over and stopped the bad man’s behavior and rescued the child. As you can imagine, it was the child’s usual polite behavior toward the old grandfather that saved his own life! Habit 3: Do it yourself Many parents are afraid that if they leave things to their children, they will mess up, but who is not confused the first time they do something? Give him more chances to try, and slowly you will find that your child is capable of more than you can imagine! Please let your child develop the habit of “doing things on his own”. Before your child learns to take care of himself, parents should let go. Especially when your child enters elementary school, wake up problems, fold the blanket, tidy up the room, pack the school bag and so on, don’t do these things for your child. Mom and dad can hold a “small ceremony” for the child to celebrate the child’s growth, and then remind the child: “you are now in elementary school, is already a small adult, from now on their own things to do, mom and dad believe that you can do a good job.” Habit 4: Don’t take other people’s things Help your child develop a sense of property rights and distinguish the boundaries between self and others. Tell your child, “You can have your own things at your disposal, but you can’t take other people’s things. If you want to take someone else’s things, you must ask their permission, and you can’t take them secretly or grab them openly. ” Some children will secretly take adults’ money to buy things, see other students’ toys, children may be “hands” to take home. This is the child does not have a sense of property rights caused by the parents to help children take responsibility. When children like to take other people’s things, do not easily define the child is a thief, please first help him to distinguish: items are private and public. For private goods, you can not touch; for public goods, from where to take to put back to where, who first get who first use, the later should learn to wait. Habit 5: time observance Reasonable living arrangements, regular work and rest can enhance the child’s sense of order, establish the concept of time and improve the efficiency of things. But it’s not easy for children to learn to be punctual. While parents set an example, they can try to put the initiative in the hands of their children: “Turn off the TV in 10 minutes and go do your homework”, “Sleep for another 20 minutes before you have to get up”. Slowly, the child will not find all kinds of excuses to be lazy. Habit 6: Keep a humble heart Learn to find the good in others and learn from them. Tell your child, “Everyone has their own shining point, we should think from others’ shining point, can we do the same for ourselves?” At this time, it is extremely necessary to keep a humble heart. There was a child who was afraid to raise his hand to answer a question, but his tablemate was brave enough to speak and often got compliments from the teacher. The child heeded his mother’s words and asked his tablemate for the “secret”, who graciously told him, “It’s okay to be wrong anyway, the teacher won’t blame us.” It was this statement that opened the child’s heart, and slowly, the child also followed the table to take the initiative to answer questions, and it is this energy, the child’s grades have improved, and the more cheerful personality. Habit 7: reflect on yourself in the mistake Children do wrong things in life, in the study of the wrong questions is a common thing, how to do the next not as an example, which requires the child can reflect on themselves in the mistake, so completely corrected. When your child does something wrong, mom and dad please don’t just blame him, may as well ask: “Do you know where you did wrong?” After your child answers, make a serious agreement with your child: “Then next time, let’s remember this lesson and don’t do it again, okay?” In the case of learning, too, a child who knows how to reflect can summarize in time, check the gaps, and greatly reduce the chances of mistakes recurring. In the long run, this can “mend” knowledge gaps and give your child a strong foundation in the subject. “It’s better to give your child a mountain of silver than a good habit.” Getting your child to develop some good habits during his or her early years will have a significant impact on his or her growth and even on his or her life. Generally speaking, it takes 21 days for a habit to develop, and “three feet of ice is not a day’s cold, and a drop of water is not a day’s work.” Likewise, these habits are also very applicable to us adults, guide to help children at the same time, we also come together to improve it!