According to a recent study conducted by scientists at Yale University, children raised by men have higher IQs, tend to do better in school and are more likely to succeed in society in the future. This research is the result of their 12 years of research, from infants to teenagers of all ages to follow the results of the survey. In terms of education, male education tends to have some of the following characteristics: 1. Fathers play the role of “responsibility bearer” in the family. If the child has too little contact with the father, and there is no father at home to be a “responsible” role model, it will be difficult for the child to develop a decisive, controlled, responsible and problem-solving personality, leading to negative behaviors such as avoidance. Studies have found that children raised by fathers are more willing to take responsibility, more assertive, more tolerant and open-minded, more rational and logical in their way of thinking, and more independent than children raised by mothers, all of which are necessary for future professional success and the pursuit of their ideal lives. This is because most men with children to take a “laissez-faire mode”, children eat all over the body, the father will not therefore reprimand him; children want to try to swing, most of the father will encourage, unlike the mother will be because of the safety issues “broken thoughts”. Dad’s tolerance gives the child “go do it, everything has dad in, you deserve to try the world” hint, so the child’s “initiative” is affirmed. Cultivate good interpersonal relationships In child counseling, many of the children who visit us are withdrawn, soft and have poor interpersonal relationships with their classmates, most of which are related to their fathers’ long-term non-participation in family education. Some of their fathers work abroad, some rarely visit their children after divorce, and some are in high positions of power, leaving early and returning late every day, and not seeing them even once a week. The mother is more gentle, caring and meticulous in raising the child, the child can’t get the rough, aggressive and outgoing traits from the father when growing up, and naturally appear introverted and soft when getting along with classmates and friends. 4. Develop the habit of loving sports Children who have a good relationship with their fathers are also better at sports and coordination. You can look around the female fans, girls who play basketball, do not have a father who loves such sports? Dad can be called the child’s first sports teacher, many children’s sports ideas, habits are inherited from the father. The famous psychologist Gerdi said, “The presence of a father is a unique presence and has a special power to nurture children.” The father is the first role model a child identifies with Whether it’s a boy or a girl, the first role model they identify with is their father. In the father, the child can observe many things: what a man is, what a father is, what a husband is. All of these perceptions that are built up from an early age have a lifelong impact on the child. The best thing a child can do is imitate. Take boys, they often look up to their fathers as role models, and many movies and TV shows often have the line, “I want to grow up to be a man like my dad!” Children who spend a lot of time with their fathers will constantly imitate and learn from their fathers to make themselves grow up to be men. In the father’s love, the boy is more likely to find a sense of direction, once the father is absent, the child can not find someone to imitate, the concept of man will be deviated. Fathers influence children’s intimate relationships with the opposite sex in adulthood For daughters, fathers not only influence their daughters’ view of choosing a spouse, but also influence the establishment of interpersonal relationships. Dr. Lu Chen, an American child psychologist, once said, “Fathers are the most influential men on their daughters.” The patterns that daughters have with their fathers will carry over into their adult years with men. For a male child, if his father does not present him with the right image of dutifulness, he is also likely to grow up to be a father who is not involved in his child’s life. Fathers influence their children’s social interactions When fathers are involved in their children’s education, children have the opportunity to be exposed to the diverse styles of adults who can also expand their children’s social activities, which is essential for developing their social skills. Dads and mothers think differently, for example, dads’ rationality versus mothers’ emotionality, both of which can bring different thinking to children. Under the influence of the father, the child will be more rational in dealing with the world, avoiding emotionalism and improving the child’s social adaptability. A father’s love is like a mountain and a mother’s love is like an ocean. Fathers and mothers have their own advantages in home education and must be complementary and balanced in order to be beneficial to their children’s growth. Mothers should occasionally let go and let fathers take more care of their children, and fathers should take the initiative to participate, not only to make their children better, but also to make family relations more harmonious. So, dads, please don’t be invisible fathers, don’t be absent for too long in the growth of your children!