Scolding a child can harm the child by damaging parent-child relationships, leading to violent tendencies, and triggering an ingratiating or avoidant personality. 1. Destroying parent-child relationship: scolding a child, even for a long time, will lead to a bad parent-child relationship. Some children become estranged from their parents. And the damage is lasting and hard to repair. 2. Lead to violent tendencies: parents are the best teachers of children, parents scold children, will lead to children think that scolding can solve the problem, so that later to society, will also project this bad behavior, affecting the child’s life. 3. Trigger pleasing personality or avoidance personality: scolding the child will form an “insecure attachment relationship”. This insecure attachment relationship will make the child become a pleaser or avoidant personality in the future.