The following measures can be used to improve the situation of children not fitting in: first, let the children overcome the psychology of low self-esteem. The reason why some children do not get along is due to the existence of low self-esteem, children are afraid to socialize with other children of the same age, timely psychological support, so that children can overcome the psychological inferiority complex. Secondly, children should be taught social skills. Some children do not get along because they do not know how to express themselves and lack of social skills, so that children can master common social skills and actively participate in the game, they will slowly get along. Finally, it is important to treat the primary disease. Some children are socially awkward because they have a medical condition that causes them to be socially awkward. If the child suffers from ADHD, there will be inattention, hyperactivity, impulsivity and other symptoms, this time you need to apply medication to control the symptoms, can improve the situation of not getting along.