Many people say that pregnancy is a wonderful journey, full of anticipation and apprehension. But after giving birth to the second child’s wife cried and cried for a divorce, complaining repeatedly: where is this wonderful journey, it is simply a tragic journey. The reason behind it makes countless men sweat and makes millions of pregnant mothers teary-eyed! 1, fairy tales are deceiving Some people say that women are a day princess, ten months queen, a lifetime of nannies. After getting married, I thought, this is at least able to enjoy ten months of special treatment, who knows the second child policy is open, pregnant mothers are depressed. The same pregnancy, when pregnant with a baby husband tea, considerate, fearing that the wife and children suffer. But this pregnancy on the second baby, calf cramps in the middle of the night, shouting husband pour a cup of water, but he was a big mask, muttering: when not cramps up to pour themselves, and not never had a baby, what is the point of being pretentious! The pregnant mother tears, can only hide in the nest themselves muffled. 2, the economy is not independent, aggrieved and aggravated The second child policy, the husband is anxious to spell a second child. It was easy to get pregnant, resigned from work to raise a baby at home. This family size food and drink all to handle, and now the money is also not fighting, a spend on the shadow. In addition to various maternity tests, baby clothes, ten months down the savings will be lost a large part. My husband blamed me for spending money like water and not knowing how to run a household. The pregnant mother who has no financial resources is really aggrieved and angry. 3, the risk of pregnancy at an advanced age, but was mistaken for good experience at an advanced age pregnant with a second baby, food, clothing, housing and transport cautiously, heard that the second child with a sudden epilepsy, pregnant mother’s little heart is trembling. But the surrounding people do not think so, after a baby is no longer a little girl, more or less a bit of experience, the work work work work, the labor labor labor, once born two familiar, this birth of a second child is certainly a breeze. Even the husband is also a tendency, maternity check-ups do not accompany, sick no matter, they are alone in the wind and rain to go, do not understand why to suffer such a crime! 4, the big baby is the in-laws, the second baby is their own pregnant baby that will, the baby has not been born, parents and in-laws began to compete for “ownership”, this shouted to help bring, that fight to help raise, baby clothes, rocking chairs, children’s toys piled up into a mountain, grandparents and grandparents vying to pay the wallet. This pregnant with a second child, parents and in-laws attitude is cold, cold throw over a “bring their own, do not be afraid of trouble”, and no longer no news. The baby, breastfeeding, laundry, housework, pregnant with a second child alive boiled into a yellow face. 5, the husband is not home all day, breastfeeding at night seconds into a panda mother It is said that men before and after marriage two kinds, in fact, after the birth of a second child is not much better. Previously, when the baby cries, the husband will get up to coax. Now it’s good, all day long, under the pretext of socializing, not home. The poor postpartum mother breastfeeding themselves in the middle of the night, coaxing the baby, after a year of not being able to sleep a restful sleep. It is easy to rest, eyes closed this big baby to school again, you have to get up to wash and cook, with a pair of dark circles under the eyes, a second panda mother. 6, the neighbors have nothing to tease the baby, the baby gambled not to recognize the mother It was difficult to survive the pregnancy in October, successfully unloaded the second baby. The actual fact is that you will have to take care of the baby and the household after giving birth, and you don’t have the energy to take care of the baby, and you feel guilty about it, but you can’t spare the time. The neighbor who loves to joke has nothing to tease the big baby a few words: Mom has a little brother (sister), do not want you. This is good, this is not to see the second baby of the big baby now even ignore the mother, crying to change the mother. The first one is the one that is not the best. The second child policy is good, but as a second child mother, but feel unprecedented sadness and helplessness. After the birth of a second child, not only the quality of life plummeted, even the face also suffered a “Waterloo”, day and night, the hair, careless, husband is not attentive, think about the future feel obscure. It is said that marriage requires the management of two people, in fact, parenting is the same. I hope the child’s father is more attentive, more patient, try to share a bit of household chores, say a few words of compassion, and take care of the fragile and tired heart of the postpartum mother, after all, the birth and raising of a child is not a mother’s business.